ahhh help with 2 babies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hello Maria, Be calm Honey, Babies know and feel when you are frustrated which can make them more irritable. Lets see they are 3 month old and keep crying, there could be a number of reasons, Colic is one of them. you have to pay attention to HOW they cry. If they are crying and pulling their legs up then this is a good sign of colic ( gas ) Try holding them different ways for example lay them belly down , across your arm with their head resting against the bend of your arm your hand between their legs. OR lay them belly down across your Lap, then gently rub their lower back. also believe it or not at this age they could be teething..are they drooling a lot? If so, try taking your clean finger,rubbing very gently across the lower gum and see if the crying stops. While teething Babies Gums itch! let me know if any of this helps..also try very soft music or humming to them. Good luck , I'm here if you need me.

It definately can be stressful and although I cant imagine twins I know what your going through I have 5 kids now and one of them is a newborn she will be 2 months on the 22nd. My youngest son is 5 years old so that's a long time it almost feels like Im starting over in a way. My oldest son is 9 years old and my other 2 girls are 8 and one going to 7 in october. It takes time to adjust and get used to things and getting into a good schedule and routine helps out too my baby Noel she is just now getting to where she is sleep 5 to 6 hours a nite thank god you'll find as they get older it gets a little easier of course as they start crawling and walking that might be a whole another story. Good luck.

Hello maria, actually babies dont really know wheather they are irritating us or no, they just know to cry.They are been too much pampered and now they are used to be carried around in the house all the time, i think you should divert their mind towards some toy or something which is new to them, or try to play with them for sometime or let them go to sleep, which is not possible all the time.I think if you try to calm down and take them for a walk in between they will be quite.Try not to hold them at all, because the more you carry them the more they will be used to it.

I believe that the babies are not comfortable. You should suite them to be comfortable that way you can get them to keep quiet. Also maybe the babies are finding their mother they have this keen sense, and they know who is around them and they can also feel that it is someone new. The babies may not have known you since you are new in handling them. Just hang in there. They'll come around. Happy mylotting.. Have a good day.

Whew! I don't have babies yet but I've watch my sisters when they were babies. A 3 months old baby really needs your special attentions. Sometimes, when I'm fed up with the crying thing... I gave them some baby toys and try to be a clown just to let them stop crying. Since they can't talk yet, they use thier crying technique to tell that maybe they are hungry, or they are having a poo poo, or some insects is bitting them... or maybe they want you to sing a lullaby song for them to get sleep. These are some things that I had with my sisters when they were babies. I hope this can help you in little ways. Have a great day ahead! and Happy myLotting!!! ^_^

I have 2 kids who are 12 and 10 yrs. old now. When they were babies, they liked to be held, cuddled all the time which I find very normal. Remember, they were in my womb for 9 months and suddenly, they are out missing the warmth and snugness of the womb. Try putting them in rocking cradles as normally they are soothed by the motion. Do they go to sleep when they are in a moving car? My kids used to sleep all the time in the car and would actually wake up when we arrive at our destination.

Hi, maria. I think the baby has the colic??? Do the baby fart all the time? Baby is easily getting colic in the first three months, that's why most of the time, they just keep crying. Normally you cannot do anything to cure colic. What you can do to reduce their pain is to massage their stomach gently with the baby oil, or you can also hold their legs and make some bycycling motions. If the babies are on the bottle, try to shake the milk gently to reduce the air bubbles. Otherwise they might suck in too much air and that can cause colic too. Plus, crying too much can also cause the colic. If they still keep crying, i think it's better to hold them, perhaps they feel unsecure. Otherwise, look for doctor's advise might help. Have a nice day and happy mylotting.

Well, it looks like a real problem if you have more than one child wailing and wants to be carried. I guess putting a few toys in the cradle or playpen could help. Sing them a song if need be. If all fails, call a friend to come and help.

First of all breathe. Take deep breaths. I am a mother of fraternal twins. They are now 15 months old. Do you babysit the twins? You don't have to answer that. That's probably non of my business. Some babies are fussy. Colic is the leading cause of fussiness. Although I did read in a baby magazine, that more than half of babies that are diagnosed as colic really have reflux. My twins had reflux. They cried all the time and wouldn't eat. They were put on medications. They helped so much. They are off of the medications now. Babies can also tell when you are stressed, frustrated, irritated. All the above. They will react to your feelings. Does their mother carry them around all the time? I used to babysit a baby several years ago. Anytime I would put her down she would cry. I learned that her mother carried her around all day because she didn't know it was ok for the baby to not be held all the time. It's ok to put the babies in their cribs and walk away for a few minutes to take a breather and hopefully clear your head. Believe it or not, it will work out. I've been there.