do you think its right for young people to?

I don't think you should get married simply because you can get things while you're married that you can't get being single. There are also certain things you can't get being married that you can get being single. Marriage should be for love. A public declaration of your commitment to one another and not for the sake of getting things. But I am sure that you two are well aware of this. Just stick it out and be there for each other and everything will fall into place.

hi Why on earth dont young people now days get married first'and then have a baby? thats the way its been done for many years and there'are damned good reasons for doing this this way. sure its not'frowned on anymore having a babyout of wedlock, but still you are'now finding that its easier if you marry first and then get pregnant. sure some marriages break up so what? a lot of nonmarriages break up every few months and couples play revolving doors and have babies with five different guys.