Trying to forget someone you loved is like trying to remember someone......

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
September 19, 2009 6:25pm CST
.... you never knew before... Are this words true or not? Can somebody forgot someone with who was in love? Is possible to forget?
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@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
20 Sep 09
yes. it is possible to forget but it really really takes so much time. It took me 4 years to get over my ex-lover. I avoided going to places where he studied, where he lived, where we used to date, and other stuff like eating french fries. Haay... I just told myself repeatedly to move on and spend more time in work and friends. Come to think of it, i also avoided our common friend who linked me to him... haaay...
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
20 Sep 09
Hi, and do you think that he suffer too? this can be a kind of consolation...maybe!!
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• Philippines
20 Sep 09
you know.. somewhere down the line, i wondered how he was and most especially if he wondered how i am. I knew he felt guilty in a way, but i also knew that he wouldnt care about me that much because he traded me in for someone else.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
20 Sep 09
its difficult to forget ice. but i believe that time always will heal the sadness. just be strong. and have faith in yourself. think positive and move on. ann
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
20 Sep 09
you right Ann, people must to think that all in this world hapened with a reason, for a season...and sometimes for all life;
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@jugsjugs (12967)
20 Sep 09
I do think you are right there and no matter what you do something always reminds you of that person except that there are always things that will also remind you of all the bad thing that went on as well as all the good things.It is hard to forget a person the same as it is hard to forgive a person.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
20 Sep 09
Hi there, sometimes is more harder to forgive yourself because you let somebody who don t deserve you in your life; i am right? i think that here is a problem, when we acuze ourselfs because let somebody enter in ours souls, and this person don t was hones;
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@falmar (49)
• China
24 Sep 09
Have your own life and have a strong inside, I mean, if you never feel boring alone you'll be able to forget that person, all you have to do is to do your won thing and absorb in it. Then you'll satisfied about that, then you'll feel relieved. But the essential is to forgive in fact, there'll be other people you'll been in love, and he has been a past, you just have to forgive and keep all his goods in mind. You'll feel better.