I need advice and comfort and everything right now. And ice cream :|

Only he knows what goes on in his head. Without him being able to express what it is without anger you may never know. I would have to ask. Who thinks you need to change and why? Why does he think you are not fine just the way you are? It sounds to me like he needs to control you at some level. He may have a need to mold you into his version of the perfect woman before he can be happy with you. This is not good. It is one thing for you to see something in yourself that you believe need changing, we all could improve in many things, but for him to insist that you change is not right. What ever the problem is you must understand that it is you. If he cannot accept the way you are because he first and foremost loves you then perhaps he doesn't love you as he should. For you to change yourself just to keep him is fooling both yourself and him. If he doesn't see you for the wonderful person you are he may never see it no matter what you do.

Well, him. I know that it is not right but you see he has a point. Not only he who said that. I think it's pretty true. You see, I'm the kind of person who does not think of her actions. Sometimes I say things which I cannot dignify, or stand for it. Maybe he's right, in some way even though my actions for that is not that big but if you put them all together one little thing could be big. Well, I realized that maybe that was the reason he broke up. And he wants that to change in me, and seeing that I won't change he won't come back. I guess if I would think more he would realize that I've been changing. The problem is, I don't understand fully what I would change. I don't want to loose him really.

What I think based on his actions he wants to change something in me. That was the reason we broke up. I've been thinking, and also a friend of mine also told me that maybe this is the only way he sees to make me change, cause he has already tried several ways to change me without breaking up. And everytime I do something that we onced fought about back when he was my boyfriend, he still gets mad now! and sometimes says that he quits, he doesn't want to care for me anymore, etc etc. I want to ask him why does he get mad like that I thought he broke up with me right? But if I said that it would just make things worse. So for now, I'm changing everything that was wrong about me. Really. And I'm hoping he'd come back despite he keeps on saying It's done. After all, most of the people I;ve talked too reason out that he's a guy, and sometimes they say that even though they don't mean it that way.

Well, I'm still too young to think to get married. But my mind keeps on thinking of overly mature things for my age I'm beginning to think things that could be impossible such as forever with him. Yeah like that's gonna happen. But there's no wrong in believing and trying right? I just have to be prepared whatever might happen. Really sometimes, or maybe I guess ALWAYS, love makes people stupid.

No, no!:) Me and my boyfriend broke up and still he doesn't want to cut all the connection and all instead he wants to be friends, I mean bestfriends since that's where we started way back before he became my boyfriend

I hope everything would go back to the way it was before :(

He knows that, but when I told him it feels like I'm not important to him anymore he just told me, "you think I'm going to do this if you're not important?" Honestly, I don't get it, and honestly I cannot read him, He doesn't want to be in this relationship anymore but he wants us to be bestfriends still and everytime I do some of the reason why he had to break up with me he gets mad and then says he quits or something, I just wanna ask why do you quit isn't that you said you have quit on me already? I don't get the point I hope you understand what I'm trying to tell lol its confusing and all.