Living from income from your husband/wife/partner

@Krupik (95)
Poland
September 21, 2009 5:10am CST
As I lost my job, I have to live from income that my partner provides. And I feel awfull. Like somebody that is using somebody else. I know... this is MY PARTNER... but still. I feel like I can't buy anything. I think BAD. So BAD. LIKE BURDEN. What do you think about such situation?
6 responses
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
where there's life, there's hope. never lose hope to find another job. u are not the only one there, there are a lot of others and it is happening globally. if u feel bad not being able to contribute by buying something, there are other ways to repay ur partner without using a penny. a good deed each day will surely brighten him up. u may volunteer to wash or iron clothes for him, anything that makes his life easier (as he is doing now to u by sharing his income) will surely be worth more than money to him. there is a job lying in wait for each one of us. don't lose hope, it will come ur way ... just strive to look for it! God bless!
@Krupik (95)
• Poland
24 Sep 09
Thank you! You are sooo right! I do lot of things in our home - helping how I can. I just hope he likes it and sees such deeds. But he is great man so I think yes.
@meapas (2436)
• India
21 Sep 09
All self-reliant people with self-integrity feels the same way world over. Who knows tomorrow you may be in their shoes then it will be pay back time for you. Keep trying for better jobs. What comes around goes around. Life is full of surprises. A day will come when you can help others. So be positive and get going with more zeal.
@Krupik (95)
• Poland
24 Sep 09
Thank you!!! I am trying to learn during this time. And you are 100% right - it is important to be positive. And I know that this tide of economy crisis will change. For better!!!
@nadooa247 (1096)
• United States
21 Sep 09
i dont think it is your fault since you LOST your job. these are NOT referral links... post your resume on monster.com do a job search on the site.. since you are sitting at home what harm can it do right? it feels worse since you are used to working and find yourself at home all day... feels like you are like a child asking for allowance or something right? that is how i felt but you know it is something out of your control... if you want PM me and send yr email addy will be happy to help you out with your resume.. if you need help ;) best of luck!
@Krupik (95)
• Poland
24 Sep 09
Thank you so much for support. I will for sure try to use monster.com. I am from Poland so I need to look at polish sites. And I have to translate my resume to english. I want it to be perfect thats why I am a little worried. And I do this in visualcv program. It is very nice - look pro and nice.
@dlr297 (5409)
• United States
21 Sep 09
this kind of situation is happening all over the place now. Their are a lot of people losing their jobs due to the economy. Don't let it get you down. or make you feel bad. All you can do is keep looking, and as long as you are doing all you can to find work you have nothing to be ashamed about.
@Krupik (95)
• Poland
24 Sep 09
Thank you, Dear! Yes, I am trying to find it! And I know that I will!!!!!
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
26 Sep 09
Hi Krupik, Sad news from you again.Don't give up!! Try to look for another job. I believe they are plenty of jobs available for you. Spend some time to look for a better job for yourself.Wish you good luck in advance in your job hunting !! I myself is not working too, I am a fulltime housewife. My husband is the only income earner for the family. I have to depend on him now. I used to work when I was single(before I married).After having one kid, I stopped working and take care of my son fulltime. I do wish I can go back to the workforce as I prefer to have my own income. I can spend whenever I want. But the situation did not allow me to work at this moment. Don't be sad!! Never give up and tomorrow is always a better day !!
@jenlex79 (256)
• United States
21 Sep 09
I like to be independent. I lost my job over a year ago and tried very hard to find another job. After looking and finding nothing for 5 months I decided to go to college and get a career. I have to live from my boyfriend's income and I don't like it because I feel helpless. I'm used to being the one to take care of the family, but I know it will be worth it in the end. Good luck to you and try not to feel bad about your situation.
@Krupik (95)
• Poland
24 Sep 09
Thank you! I was also the one to take care of everything and now... BUT - maybe it is important to learn to ask people for help? I was never eager to do this but... now I have to look at everything in different light. And I learn a lot.