being a listener makes u freak sometime

I am habituated to listening. till the person who is talking stops by himself

Hi velocity, If this is occurring to you, could it be because you have issues you want to discuss yourself? Do you have someone to listen to you when you have a bad day or just something to gripe about? It does the soul good to have days when you just shut the world out and be by yourself. It is ok to let everyone know that you are not in the mood for talking or listening at the moment and to give you the respect of privacy. If you enjoy listening to others but feel aggitated afterwards, perhaps you can find a way of cleansing your body and soul of their negative vibe? You could do some simple meditation and rid yourself of the toxins. It could possibly be that your soul and your aura are extracting the negative vibes from these people, good for them to get rid of their issue or problem, but bad for you in that you are left with their vibe. One suggestion is to sit quietly in your space, light a white candle and meditate all those negative vibes into the candle, asking the candle to help cleanse you. If this suggestion is too much for you, perhaps just not allowing others to unload so much on you would be better, be honest and say what you feel or don't like and have those friends or co-workers look else where to unload their burdens. Good luck to you and I hope you feel better.