"is not my business, and i don t care"!!

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
September 21, 2009 7:03am CST
You use this words when somebody ask your advice in his problems?Are you a person who really don t care about what happened around? Maybe are moments when we rally must to use this words...when we criticize others....but when we can help them with an advice, maybe just incuragge them we will use "is not my business, i have my problems too"??? How much you are a person who really like to share with others from your life experience?not money...just advices or why not a moral support?
9 responses
@taztheone (1721)
• India
22 Sep 09
I don't care whatever is concerned with others because it's none of my business. This is not the case when someone asks you some help. If someone is in need of help, then I would definitely try to help them in the best ways possible. Because helping others is the best I can do in this life. Happy Lotting
• Malaysia
22 Sep 09
If someone ask me for advice or help,i will certainly help him out if i have the time and ability to do so.However,sometime there are some people that are too lazy to solve the problem by themselves.That kind of people will ask for help everytime and if you refuse to help him,he will blame you for the problem,like you create the trouble for him and you have responsibility to help out.I have meet several people like that and i have learn my lesson that i will not help him anymore.Then it is the time for me to say "is not my business, and i don t care"!!.
• India
22 Sep 09
I Should Have Been the First Person To Respond Here .. But the Post Appeared Before Me A Short While Ago .. I Will Never Ever Say I Have My Problems, It's Not My Business .. Mylot Is A Place for Sharing Everything That You Can Do Or Help Others Online .. I Do feel That Will Be An Unnecessary Statement On Here .. Thanks ..
• China
22 Sep 09
I will give my advice and best answer to them those who ask me for help. We will say "it is not my business" or "I don't care it" when we have the same problems as your friends have. But in my experience,I will do my best to help them overcome the problems and get along with them. That's mine,the real mine!
@fglswh (66)
• China
22 Sep 09
I am a sensitive person, so I don't want to hurt others by words. But I am often hurted by others, like the word in the discussion. In real life, everyone has his/her own pains, but when others ask you for advice or help, we should give him/her proper help, so he/she can feel better.
• India
22 Sep 09
Some times we may.... :-)
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
21 Sep 09
in my life well growing up i made lot of mistakes, i do share with those who come to me for advise. the things i've either learned from my mistake or leasons i learned from other that helped me to improve myself i will share. but if they are the kind of person who wants me to fix thier life issues i tell them straight up its them need to fix it not me or anyone else. then if they keep messing up i get to the point where its like oh well who cares. like my neice keep saying she and her husband like to sit and talk to me and my wife about thier marriage issues, we've been telling them over 6 months call us. now its like who cares.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
21 Sep 09
there are times when i get away from things saying that it is not business. but i behave in such a manner only when i have an indifferent relation with the person or the person. otherwise, i would do everything in my capacity to help a person out of problem. i have experience that when i help out someone i experience an immence joy which is far better than a happiness derieved from anyother pleasure.
@jugsjugs (12967)
21 Sep 09
I tend to speak my mind that way everyone knows where they stand with me.If someone asks for my advice i will tell them what i think and what i would do.If someone tells me they have done something and they want to put things right for the wrong thing they have done i will tell them the kind of thing i would do.