What is that you like about your partner/spouse?

@krupesh (2608)
India
September 21, 2009 12:09pm CST
What I like most with my wife is that she doesn't let me do a single househole work.Be it taking care of the children , giving bath to the children , helping the children in their home work etc..etc.There are so many things which I like about her.These are just a few. What about your spouse/partner?What do you like about him/her?
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• United States
21 Sep 09
What I like best about my husband, is he respects me as a woman. He understands that it is his house as much as it is mine, and he does is share to take care of it. He understands that he has just as much part in making our children as I did, and he is a wonderful father to them. He understands that I have a job and am going to college, and he supports me one hundred percent. Our relationship is completely 50/50 and I would not have it any other way.
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@krupesh (2608)
• India
21 Sep 09
Hello rmorefield, Does he give bath to the children which is considered a woman's job?Does he help you in preparing the dishes?
• United States
21 Sep 09
Actually, yes he does give the children their baths. And he does the dishes on a daily basis. He also does the laundry, cleans the floor, and feeds the dogs and fish. He is secure enough in himself as a man to do whatever I do. If he is going to live in my house, he is going to help take care of it. If I am going to live in his house, then I will help take care of it. In our home, there is no "one gender's job". We both do things to help the other. Like I said, our relationship is 50/50. I would never live with a man that told me something was my responsibility just because I am a woman. I am definitely no weaker just because I am a woman. As a matter of fact, I am studying to be an Anesthesiologist, while holding down a job, being a mother, helping to run our house, and letting my husband know on a daily basis how much I love and appreciate him.
@Tantrums (945)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
Everything! I started dating her because she has this carefree attitude and she's quite feisty too! I ended up marrying her...
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@krupesh (2608)
• India
21 Sep 09
Everything? wow ...then you got a perfect wife.I think you are one of the few to get a person like that.Are you sure that there are nothing that you dont like about your wife?
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 09
My spouse....well I always admire his singing talent. He does have a good husky voice that will easily melt my heart even though we don't share many interests.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 09
No...he really sings well especially the evergreen oldies from Tom Jones, Engelbert, and Elton Johns. If he has switched to singing as his career, it could have earned him a fortune.
@krupesh (2608)
• India
21 Sep 09
Hello Zandi, Wow ! Does he have such a good voice? Does he sing for himself or for you?Is he a bathroom singer ? So even if he doesn't help you , you dont mind thinking about it?Hope he helps you from now on..
@krupesh (2608)
• India
21 Sep 09
I think he still sings well...then why cant you change his career now also if he has it in him?.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
21 Sep 09
hi krupesh, my wife more than your wife,she also take the responsibility of educating our sons,she have taken more care in my second son's childwood days,now my second son is working as a SAP consultant in Hyd,all that credit goes to my wife only,have a nice day
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
22 Sep 09
hi krupesh, thanks for the comment,well said,i am not trusting my sons now itself,that is common in all these days,genrations are going changing,we should not blame any one,we have to make ourself for our life,have a nice day
@krupesh (2608)
• India
21 Sep 09
Hello Yugasini, Hope she looks after you well in your old days.There is none better than your wife to look after you at those times.You even cant trust your children after they get married.What you say?
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
21 Sep 09
Hello Krupesh. I love his intelligence, conversations with him, and his willingness to help me when I need it. I also like that he encourages me in the things I enjoy doing. We make a pretty darn good team! Karen
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 09
Dear Krupesh, You are so blessed with a very thoughtful and loving wife! Talking about my hubby... can I change the question to what I dislike about him? Dislike will be : Very fussy with food. Forgetful! Not Thoughtful and Not Caring. SO....other than that are all his 'PLUS' points that I like. It is easier for me as the list of what I like is longer..LOL
@krupesh (2608)
• India
21 Sep 09
Hello Iriene, You should be happy that your list of the like is lot more than the list of dislikes about your hubby. Forgetful? what does he forget? Not caring?Why is it so?Just try to get to know why he doesn't care that much..
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@krupesh (2608)
• India
21 Sep 09
I think he is a lil' bit lazy that you can't consider it as NOT CARING.When he has come all the way to the mall to shop then it shows that he is CARING but if he doesn't push the trolley its just that he doesn't like pushing it thats all. As for the household chores , he might think that its a woman's job to do & a lil' bit lazy too.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 09
Dear Krupesh, Hahaha, before married he loves me. After married he loves reading newspaper more than me... A scenario to describe my dislike about him :~ Let say I have a handful of things to do, he will never offer to help unless I asked him to. He will rather busy reading his daily newspaper. Assuming I am shopping with him in the supermarket, he never offer to push the trolley like others' husband did. Anyway, I am immune to it. I am learning to accept the fact that he is not caring enough!
@eshaan (6188)
• India
24 Sep 09
well..abt my husband i can say that he is very caring..though he shouts sometimes but he has nothing except love and care within the heart...i would like to mention that he never asks me money details and believes me fully...never let me felt that i am not earning....though i keep earning some bucks online..but spend much more than that ...but me too carrying out all other responsibilities properly....like your wife ..he doesnt has any household tensions...
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
I love my husband very much and I love almost all of him even his imperfections. We complement each other. I do things for him and he does things for me. We support each other and respect each other. .. I really miss my husband now because he is abroad. .. Good thing there's the internet, through Skype, that we see and talk each other everyday.
• United States
30 Sep 09
he is really understanding about everything about me whether its health or regular issues.. he for some reason thinks i hung the moon which i will never understand.. he is loyal and honest and caring and my best friend..
• United States
22 Sep 09
One thing I like about my boyfriend is he will do household chores and he is good at it. I am a women but I feel a man should be able to do housework just like I. I also love the way he cooks as well. I mean he makes a cheeseburger like you would not believe. Anyway nice topic to discuss and happy mylotting to you as well.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
wow! that's so nice of your wife! well with me, what i like most about my husband is that he trust me with all his heart! he lets me do things that he know makes me happy...he don't demand anything from me and he accepts and love me for who really i am...and he also loves my family! but above all, what i like about him is that he is God-fearing and he helps me in strengthening my spiritual being... and i like him the way he is... have a nice day!
@krupesh (2608)
• India
21 Sep 09
Hello ckyera, ...so you have a very caring , helping & GOD fearing husband.GOD bless you so that he continues to be as you like him to be.
22 Sep 09
My husband is as cuddly as a bear and has a bear hug. He has the nicest smile and is a strict but fair person. In addition, he is an excellent provider. I am a full-time stay at home mom and we all rely on him to put food on the table.You could say, we split our tasks - he goes out there to earn money for our needs and I stay at home to take care of the family. For his part, he has fulfilled well his obligations and duties as a husband. I cannot complain. He is the best. Yet, despite this division of roles and responsibilities between us, he still finds time to take care of our kids (changed their nappies too when they were babies). Isn't he just great?
@kid221 (150)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
Good day to you Krupesh. My girlfriend is one of the most wonderful person I met in my life. She has been very supportive of my activities, plans, and visions for the future. A very loving person, with a gentle touch and lovely smile that get rid of my weariness and problems everyday. She's a smart and articulate lady that can talk any topics that you want to discuss with her. Im always under her spell everytime we talked for very long hours of untiring discussions. These are some of the things that I liked most in her.
• Australia
22 Sep 09
I'm in a 3-year relationship right now and I can say that we are heading somewhere. What I like about my boyfriend is that he loves me so much, maybe more than I love him, hence even though we are apart I feel secure. He's an excellent driver and helps me out with work. He's very patient and sweet -- leaving messages in my account and messenger before he leaves for work and when he gets home. Most of all, he makes me feel beautiful and special. He does great things for me, and at the same time never fails to make me smile with the simple things he does.
@pillusch (1147)
• Mexico
22 Sep 09
Wow, krupesh, what you wrote there is politically very, very incorrect LOL and double LOL. You might be branded as a macho for admitting that the roles in your house seem to be distrubuted in a traditional manner, where the wife takes care of the home and children, and the man goes out, works, and brings the money home. I like that. I would like to have a wife like that, but they are very hard to come by these days. In fact, as roles are concerned, the difference between men and women seem to be disappearing - we just need some scientific discovery so that we men can have babies, too. I just left my family, in fact I was living with two women, the mother of my children, and the maid who has been with us for 15 years and literally turned into a second mother. She was just about to turn into my second wife, starting to nag me about this and that, when I realized it was time to leave - they were finishing me off between the two of them! Goof luck to you, and I envy you.
@bamrahkirti (1821)
• India
22 Sep 09
Well what i like most about my husband is that he is very smart and has a model type looks.He is not arrogant and snobbish.He is down to earth and does not feel jealous or has ego problems.
@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
i love my husband very much he is responsible in terms of financial, he makes sure that our needs and goals must be achieved. he is loving and sweet, and i like it when he wants me to go wherever he go.
@sblossom (2168)
22 Sep 09
my husband is very kind man and very tolerant man too. no matter what i do he always support me. he has big confidence about me. he trust me very much. also my husband helps me a lot. now I stay at home, he works very hard. but he still helps me doing housework. he cooks at weekends, sometimes he also cooks at weekdays if i don't feel very well. i think it's not easy to have a husband like him. work tirelessly to support the family also do house works at home, especially his wife does not go out to work.
@croamer (165)
• Taiwan
22 Sep 09
Come on, it seems you ain't that love your wife since you can simply listing the items which you loved, because those actions can be carried out by most of people, in my humble opinion, if you really love one person, you should have no answer for the question - WHAT YOU LIKE ABOUT ME? Anyway, good luck, and happy mylotting
@kutedarsu (254)
• India
22 Sep 09
Mine is a love marriage however he don't allow me to stain myself always ... He makes my life smooth and enjoyable in each and everything... The way he takes care on me.. the way he convince when m angry ... very lovable person ... i am so lucky that i got him in my life.. he replaces my mom.. I love the way he talks with everyone his patience and smile... hardwork... everything .... no words to express my love on him....... Specially weekend shoppings and enjoyments in life...