Club Stripers Are The Cause Of Infidelity

i don't think a man going to see stripers is going to make them cheat. if he is going to cheat he is going to cheat if he is at a strip club or a got damn mcdonalds!!! it's not where he is, it's who he is that makes him cheat!!

Finally, the first I've met who values fidelity so much. I've been going to strip joints when I was still single but since I got into a relationship, it became the least of my interests and I never went there since then. I never go to those places anyway unless some friend asks me for company and pays for the bills, I don't and won't shell out money for those things, just not worth it. But I don't think it really causes infidelity. It's the person himself/herself who causes infidelity because there is no need to veer your attention to someone else if you've gotten yourself into a relationship or a commitment. Why be committed when you cannot even keep it? Might as well stayed single and lived a hedonistic lifestyle, never committing at all right? Besides, if the guy or girl is in it for the drinks alone, there are a lot of bars out there that offer great tasting drinks without the gyrating performers. Or better, there's a wide array of choices in the supermart or convenience stores. A lot more thrifty even, to buy and drink at home.

[i]I for one believe its not right and causes infielity within relationships. [/i] just how exactly does it cause infidelity?? .. why do men go to strip clubs? the same reason women do...its a fun night out...Just like goin to a nightclub/dance club is... What do I think of strip clubs? LOL being a former stripper myself I have no issues with them at all...and for the record...it was actually quite common for COUPLES to come into the clubs and enjoy the night together..In fact I worked at a club yrs ago and once a week EVERY WEEK an elderly couple would come in together dressed in their best, they'd sit in the front row and enjoy the shows together..

People of bad character go to such places. Its not a gentleman's behavior. Men or women who are raised in decent family do not visit such places. A girl and her family would not agree to a marriage with such a man. This is the way things are in my country and most Asian countries.

I don't think club strippers are the cause of infidelity. Instead, the husband is the one that should be blamed for this. Club strippers are club strippers, that's their job. It's still in the husband's conscience that can make a huge impact.

I think its definetly not right to go to a strip club if your in a relationship. But i believe its wrong for you to even go to a strip club. I think that if your going to be sexually aroused, you should be aroused by someone you actually think about dating or marrying.

I do not think they are the cause of infidelity. I believe the person messing around is. I do not "allow" my man to do anything, it is not my place as it is not his place to "allow" me. I would hope that the man I am with would not choose to go. I also think it is my responsibility to meet his needs at home so he has no desire to go. If he did go, say for instance, with guys from work, I would not worry, he comes home to me. If he didnt come home to me, he would soon become homeless! :)

I wouldn't appreciate that at all. I would hope that my boyfriend does not want to do that. So far he hasn't had any inclination to do anything like that. I would not really be happy with it at all, but all I think you can really do is say how it makes you feel, I don't think you can really do anything else. They will pretty much do what they want to do anyway.

For me, I don't stop my hubby to go to stripping club if he wanted to. It's his money to spend not mine and besides if he going to cheat on me,that's up to him. It test his faithfulness to me. Once before i have an experienced going to similar places, as a part of our study and research at school. We went there as a group with our professor, and i find it funny lolz.

I do not think it is okay to go to a stripers club if you are in a relationship. You should be commited to that person and there should not be any reason you should want to go. We all know that a relationship should be base on trust of one another but just because you trust each other still does not make it right to go out to see other ladies or men in a stripers club. Be happy with the person you are commited too and respect how they would real feel knowing you are at the stripers club.

If a man goes to a strip club to watch strippers on stage, it means that he is not contented on his wife if he is married or girlfriend. Many says that it is only for fun and Im not agree with it.

Why do we need these kind of clubs anyway? We are just looking for relationship trouble when we frequent these establishments. Both men and women seem to find their own fascinations with these clubs. You can be sure they don't take their significant others along. Maybe if they did, they'd go there less.

yes it ok for a man to go to a strip club if you have trust in your man or woman then you should have nothing to worry about and besides it just makes them what to come home to the one they know will always be there by there side so relax get some trust going and then you will fined out what love really is because if you don't have trust you have nothing.