Have you ever??????
By dhisaw
@dhisaw (304)
United States
September 22, 2009 1:25am CST
I was just wondering has anyone ever lived in a situation that was stressful and miserable. I am. I know it makes sense to live with other people with the way the economy has been and is right now. I have not liked my living situation for quite some time. It does not help that I have been telling my husband this just about the whole time. I can say now that he seems to finally feel the same way. He hates living here too but so much so that he has taken on a part-time job. He says that it is to make it. It makes sense at times but other times it doesn't. I miss seeing him and being with him. yesterday was our seven year anniversary and we didnt even get to spend an hour together. He had to work both his full-time and part-time job. It kind of hurts. Actually it hurts quite abit. He asked me the other day if I would get mad i he agreed to go with a guy from work to another town for the whole weekend. I told him that I wouldn't. I told him that I am lonely and that I miss him all the time. For some strange reason I feel like I don't matter at all to anyone. I can't help but to sometimes feel like he doesn't want to be with me. I even told him that and he said that if he didnt want to be with me then he wouldn't be here with me. Some of his family members don't seem to help matters at times. They always end up wanting him to come to their house or to take them somewhere. I tcuts out our time together. I know it sucks. I am sorry to anyone who reads this and has a problem with me talking about my life and problems. But I know everyone has problems. You know I even asked my husband what he thought it would take to get our relationship back to the way it used to be and all he told me was for us to be able to get out of the place we are living. I think for some reason it is more than that. I just hope and pray that we make it through the rough time.
1 response
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
22 Sep 09
I am sorry that you are miserable and stressed. You have just celebrated your seven year anniversary. I know people talk about the 'seven year itch'. Maybe what you need in your relationship is clear conversation. I suggest that you try to forget the negative and think about anything that is the slightest bit positive. Relationships can change over many years. I hope that you marriage to your husband will get back on track. Good luck.
My worst time was at 36 weeks pregnancy with my second son. I was miserable when I found out he has spina bifida and hydrocephalus. Now I can enjoy seeing him play with his toys and learn about the world we live in.
@dhisaw (304)
• United States
23 Sep 09
I am trying to see the positive and I even told my grandmother that the problem with not seeing each other that we are trying to work that out. We just both do not like living where we ar livn and both want out of here. And maybe that will happen soon. I surely do hope so. I think everything will work out in the end.
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