I met someone new and I have the butterflys in my stomach
By Breelyn
@spicysweetie21 (2573)
United States
September 22, 2009 1:31am CST
I recently broke up with my boyfriend, and I wasn't planning on meeting or even thinking about meeting anyone new for awhile, but I went online to look just for a friend and I get along better with guys and so I met this guy who responded. And he was a total sweetheart and very good looking, he misunderstood what I wanted and told me that I was beautiful and he kissed me, and it was AMAZING. And he wants to get together again tomorrow, which is great because I love that he didn't leave me guessing about if he likes me or not. I really really like this guy, but it has been awhile since I was dating someone new, so I am really nervous and scared. Im taking it slow because it is extremely soon after my break-up, but I just know in my gut that this guy is someone that I shouldn't pass on. I just am so anxious though.
How do you feel when you meet someone new that you are just so into?
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6 responses
@barbiejune (125)
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
When we break up with out partners, we always have that idea of never falling into the same feeling again. But for a reason the love does go away after some time. On my opinion, love only lasts if two people work together to keep it alive.
Because I believe we make our own destiny, I say you should enjoy the company of this new person you have met. But! Because you might be vulnerable (consciously or not) from your recent relationship, you need to take it slow. Get to know the guy well. Learn about his past, talk about anything and everything under the sun, do things that normal friends enjoy doing together.
Friendship is always a good foundation for a love that lasts.
Good luck!
June
@spicysweetie21 (2573)
• United States
25 Sep 09
Thank you for your response and your support, yeah i am taking it slow and when i feel things, i stop and say to myself "whoa slow down there Breelyn",it is hard and scary but now that I have done the relationship game a couple times before, and thus the dating game before that, i do keep everything in mind. Tommorrow night, I am going to try and find out a bit more abbout his past, but one thing that we don't lack is friendship, for the most part we are always laughing and joking around, which I love because that is a huge part of who I am.
@doglady112 (604)
• Canada
23 Sep 09
Good for you, I hope that happens to me too. In three weeks I'll be single again and I'll have my birthday soon. I hope I won't have to celebrate it alone. i hope all goes well with your new beau.
@janzki (49)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
it is really a wonderful feeling. but be cautious. you might get into the emotion too early you misinterpreted things he showed or worse he is just taking advantage of you being weak of the recent break up.
what if you'll realize too late he wasn't really worth the feeling it became harder to break and you were in it too deep? like an opium that was going on around you felt it was your refuge but in reality it wasn't a shelter but more of a fear of being alone once more?
i'm not discouraging you, we all have the right to move forward, but just be cautious. you deserve, we all deserve to have someone true.
setting aside the negativity, i am happy for you, you have found someone who made you feel that way. God bless and don't forget to ask for guidance.
@Sherka (82)
• Jamaica
22 Sep 09
I recently started another relationship even though i told myself that didn't want a relationship after my break up last. Its weird how you keep telling yourself that you dont want a relationship and yet out of all the other guys that u blew off, you gave one a chances and surprisely you actually like it and as you said you get butterflies in your stomach. I have a date with my new guy on Friday.
@med889 (5941)
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22 Sep 09
When I broke up with my ex boyfriend some four years ago I myself did not know how I could have get along with someone else so perfectly, I believe it is just life taking us on a beautiful cruise, then one day we broke again and I am finally with my boyfriend for more than three years now.
. you are right about not rushing things but if your intuition is saying that this is a good guy then definitely go for it.