you wanna be marry in what age? why?
By arek_ngamen
@arek_ngamen (183)
Indonesia
September 23, 2009 2:15am CST
30 years pld, because I need to prepare everything, and success is my priority...
I hope when I'm 30 y.o I have my own house, car, business so I can live my family with happiness..
and when my children grown up, I'm no to old enough to understand teenage world. ^^
9 responses
@figjam00 (1445)
• India
11 Oct 09
hi mylotters!!! i think marriage is one of the most important step in one's life n we should marry when we are ready to take the responsibility of parenting n all...n in pour community i think 23-24 is the sge for girls n 25-26 for girls, n according to me it's less for gals still wondering y it's so late :(
@l33tgirl (288)
• New Zealand
27 Sep 09
I don't think age is a problem. When I was 22 I was engaged and it didn't work out, when I realised how close I was to marrying the wrong person too soon in my life I realised it's not about ages and milestones. You should get married when you are ready regardless of how old you are. I have now met the right person and we are talking about marriage however I am not rushing it, I'd like to be more settled first, have more money in the bank and our own home.
I've heard of couples over sixty getting married, so it's never too late!
For myself personally I think 30, like yourself because I also don't want to be too old to run around with my kids.
@babyfiona08 (652)
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
Before, when I was still studying, I am planning to get married around the age of 25.But that changed now because me and my boyfriend are planning to get married next year.
I am just 21 years old now but I think I am ready for a serious commitment and a sacred commitment in life. Me and my man are graduate with degrees and are now both working. I can say we are mature enough for a journey in life. I am glad that we are still that strong despite of certain problems that we had encountered.
Now, we are busy working for the wedding. Few months from now, we will be having the detailed preparation of the most important day in our lives. I know many people will say we're too young to get married knowing I am 21 and he is 23 but I think that doesn't merely depends on age but on how stable the both of you are and how well you can stand the problems and storms that could happen in your new life.
I think we've done our role as daughters and sons of our parents and it's also time for us to build a family of our own whom we will be with forever.
@yuhongchao1981 (286)
• China
24 Sep 09
I think that age is not a problem.If you are mature enough and have prepared to get married,you can get married right now.Most people face the problem that they have not prepared to get married like having not a good salary,not being prepared to get married in mind and so on.I got married at the age of 26.Then i have not prepared to get married without a house,car and a good job.I got married with my wife and we make joint efforts to get everything we need.And we have a good time everyday.
You can get married in case you can be considerate of your partner.Age do not determine if you can get marriage.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
23 Sep 09
I think...if person.. getting any good job..and understand his responsibily..for life partner..then hi should getting married.. if you say talk about age..then i think...a person..can marry in age of 35-36..it's good gae of marru..and i also..getting marry..on this age..if i can getting a good job..
@Zaneclan (68)
• India
23 Sep 09
I am 25 now and turning 26 very soon. I had decided I would marry when I turn 27 but now I think I would marry when when I am 29 years old I guess. I am already earning, have a good job in a good enough post working with an MNC. But I intend to do loads of savings before I actually get married. I also want to increase my salary a lot more and get a lot more experience so that I can support my family in a lot better way. Earlier about 2 years back it was all about getting married as soon as possible but now it's all about money,money money...
@Archie0 (5652)
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23 Sep 09
Hello arek
well see right now i am 25 years of age, and i think anyone at this age anyone wants or feels like to be loved or get married may it be any how difficult life after marriage but everyone somehow and somewhere feels to be loved and love someones special.
I do get the feeling that i should get married now, but i will still wait for 1 more year as this year i will start earning and till next year i will settle myself with money and then i will think about marrying, lets see if god has something good for me in his stores.
@MikaOkle (43)
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23 Sep 09
Nice thought..one should go for marrige only after age 27 as then only you started establishing yourself and can understand partner well.Teenager start attracting with one and then other and few of them just go out of their aim.
When you plan for your baby,you must be responsible enough to well upbringing of them.That's all what I think.
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
Actually I don't depend on my age. I depend on my capability to handle such responsibility like marriage. We should marry if we are ready to take the responsibility of being a parents. Marriage is a vow and it's holy so we should be aware of the responsibilities that we are going to handle if we are already married.