Heartbreaker

If a love one has gone and return back afterwards then he is definitely yours but if he has gone and never returns then he was never yours, So everything happens for the good, I learn it when I was heart broken too and it hurts inside but then this is not my entire life which should pay for that, so time heals and i am cured finally. When a couple is done then both should be talking about the break up and then leave.

yeah your right about your answer to your question.. hehe.. but we just cant deny the fact that its easier said than done..yeah its easy to say just forget him and stuff but you just cant dictate your hearts out saying by tomorrow his out of my life and out of my heart.. hearts takes time to heal and I just cant blame if you`ve had your semi stalker thing hehe.. but probably diverting your mind out of it would kinda help! thanks for sharing!

hello glechelle, it's really hurts and painful when you really love someone and lost him/her because he/she doesn't love you anymore. more so when you did nothing wrong. but they say, better love and lost than never love at all. maybe, he is not the right guy for you. mr right is just there around the corner. he will find you in no time. you'll be fine pretty soon.

Hi, glechelle It's funny that you mentioned about being a semi-stalker because I remember being one too. I never really had a real breakup, my husband was my first and only serious boyfriend. But I remember that we once decided (well, because he wanted it ) to cool things off. No communication for 2 weeks, we said. Oh well, that was when I became a semi-stalker. I was calling his house hoping that he would answer then put the phone down, sending text messages that "supposed to be" was not for him but was just trying to get him to text me back -- yeah, I was demented. After a few days of that, I told myself to stop acting crazy. So, I erased his contact numbers on my celphone --which was pointless since I know them by heart. But it helped anyway, I got busy and drove away the temptation of contacting him. After several days, he called me up, wanted to see me and everything was back to normal. I never told him about that. Maybe he knew but he never brought it up. Thank god. It would have been really embarrassing. Take care!

It takes time to forget especially if you are still not over him. Try to make yourself busy and think of him less by going out with your friends and meeting new people. It will be more harder for you to move on if you keep on asking about your ex. Even thou its normal to be concern about him, remember you are not helping yourself. People come and go. It will be much harder for you to get over your feeling if you ask the person to stay on your side until you forget and absorb that you two are already over. The more you get yourself closer to him the more you'll get hurt, especially if he has somebody else already. Move on its not the end of the road. There is someone out there for you. You can be friends with your ex but not this time. You both need time and space.

Glechelle, When I broke up with my partner, I felt depressed with my life. I thought my life went kaput with no colors at all. I just want my life to standstill neglecting things or situations coming my way. It is hard for me to get over since the person has been part of my daily routine as well as the love of my life. But we have reasons to continue our lives. Reasons like to love others who are more deserving of our love and attention. Breakups make us more mature and decisive in all our decisions for our relationship. Live your life without heartaches and be loved by somebody else.

I Can Understand What A Break Up Means .. It's Never Easy to Come To Terms With A Break Up .. It Happens Due to Various Reasons .. Most of the Time It's Due To Misunderstanding .. Am Better Of With Understanding Going My Way .. Thank God ..

glechelle, I would like to add here that everything does not end with a broken relationship. If the both of you do not work out then just accept it and that perhaps it should not be allowed to continue at all. Look at it from another perspective, wouldn't it hurt more to continue? Besides, if incompatibility is present between the both of you, continuing will just hurt everyone at the end of the day. It is never the end of the world here as Helen Keller once said: "When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us." So, remember to open your heart and eyes for the other opened door in your life. Take care and have a nice day.

It really is hard to deal with breakups. It's not easy to let go of the relationship you once had with someone else and it's the same in the case of a man and a woman. The right thing to do is know when to give and to accept things as it happens but there are times being persuasive and just loving unconditionally helps. It's really up for you to weigh things properly because in the end you'll be the one suffering or happy:)