Would any one help me out ??

It's a bit difficult to advise you without specific information but the first option for action, for which you would be able to forgive yourself, is obviously not the correct choice. This means you must find a happy medium between it and the other option or look for a third action that allows you to be satisfied with your decision while doing the right thing. Whatever action you take, do not decide emotionally. Do not support the person you would "speak in favor of" simply out of loyalty even if it means losing a friend. Do what is right and what is best for all concerned.

Hey raj, whats up? You seems to be in deep thoughts? For situations beyond your control, tell yourself: I would prefer "A" but if "B" happens, it is ok! This is really a game that you play in your head. It is a shift of attitude, and it gives you more peace of mind. Life will bring obstacles and difficulties, yet it is our thoughts and attitude that enable us to see them as challenges and gain victory over them. As a man of wisdom, am sure you know what to do in any situation.

Hullo Rajib! Friendship would all come later and it is your conscience that you should listen to. Say for example, some friend asks you to give a guarantee or some similar thing and you know that it is not a fair proposition then place faith in God and refuse to do it. If a friendship is lost on account of this then it only proves that it is a need based friendship[you can as well do without it.THere can be no expectations in this] Listen to what your inner mind tells you. If you are in doubt consult some person like your father or mother [who would give an unbiased opinion that would totally be in your interest] and with whom you can confide the whole story if it is possible.If it is not so, do not worry whether you have been good or bad . Listen to your rational mind and do not let emotion come in the way of your thinking. Only today I was wondering what had happened to you and I see you. Trust you are fine.

What can you live with? Which decision would please the God who loves you? Which would you want your son to do? That's what you have to ask yourself. I hope that you can come to an honest decision and can deal with the consequences, whatever they are. I just said a prayer for you.

Sounds like you are in quite a mess. You certainly can't do what you can't live with..that is the golden rule. I would talk in private with the person that wants you to stand by them and tell them..I can't. Tell them that you will do what you can to help them within reason and but let them know what it is exactly that you can't stand for. Being honest now will save a lot of trouble in the future. Not to mention the fact that by prewarning them..they have the chance to do whatever damage control they might need too..lol.

you already stated the obvious answer in your discussion. do what is right and stand up for it. the truth will always set you free. no matter what be truthful. this maybe difficult but this is the best that you can do. whatever will the consequences of your decision be brave enough to face it. what is important is youo speak the truth and your conscience is clear...clear from any guilt feelings. don't forget to seek wisdom/divine intervention. i know you're almost there you just need some backing up to convince yourself that you're on the right track, that you're thinking is the right decision. cheers!

Ok, Raj. We have had this conversation before I am thinking. When you have this question come up you need to go with your gutt. Don't over think it or you will ruin the out come. Just go with what your gutt, not your intellect, tells you is best and you will do fine.

A few here have advised you to listen to your inner self and listen to what your conscience tells you to do. I agree with this and what is important is to ask yourself whether you can live with your decision. At the end of the day whatever you decide to do is between you and your God and that is what you have to be at peace with, no one else. Believe that whatever the consequences of your decision are going to be, you are strong enough to deal with them.

Hello my friend krajibg Ji, I think you are like Ftaher of nation, who could not satisfy both and lost the life for his act to satisfy one. I hope, you will hold the truth as this only will satisfy your soul and act naturally. Else others will suffer as we are suffeing due to one-sided act by father of the Nation. May god bless You and have a great time.

Dear Rajib- I do not know of your struggles intimately, but I agree with what was shared. You must listen to your own inner Truth. That is all we can live by is the Truth. It does our own journey no good if we pretend or live falsely. It is like living behind a paper mask that when wet soon falls apart leaving us with a messy face. The risk is that perhaps this friend leaves you. However, the other side to this is that they thank you for being a good friend and stepping in when sage advise is needed. It is not unlike the child who tests his/her limits to make sure a loving parent is willing to step in and show them where the boundaries exist. It lets them know they are safe and that you love them. I send healing your way today and ask all to bless you during this trial. Namaste-Anora

Well, there`S a saying the truth will set you free!!

There is only one way out- listen to your conscience. My own belief is that you should go with the truth as it would keep your conscience clear. You should only lie if it is a white one- it does not hurt.One thing you should realise , you cannot run away from yourself. Do whatever will help you to be at piece with yourself, do not live the rest of your life feeling you did an injustice to a greater number of people including yourself.Best of luck!

Damn if you do, damn if you don't. I've learned that saying from House M.D. Weigh your options well