have you ever offensed someone by accident ?
By chryslark
@chryslark (89)
China
3 responses
@ivygrey (550)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
Yes I did, And I never thought that the joke would really hurt her feelings, I felt so bad and She never told me right away that I offended her so I continued joking around until she was really mad. I learned that I have to be careful with my words. There are people that are sensitive so I have to watch my mouth next time.
@chryslark (89)
• China
24 Sep 09
Everyone would make some mistakes in his or her life . Words sometimes can become a sharp sword that hurt people a lot. So we should really watch our tongue.
@shajerrl (309)
• China
24 Sep 09
Maybe every guys have the experiences to insult someone by accident. i almost lose my best friend because of my unconscious behavior. i feel guilty about for a very long time, though i have given my apologize to my friend but we still didn't say any words for a long period. after that i decided to change my character and make me more mature, i also don't make a joke to my friend frequently, even have i will think carefully.
@chryslark (89)
• China
24 Sep 09
I want to be casual when getting along with friends. If you have to be very careful even with your best friend,then life will be full of boringness. Besides iin my opinion changing your personality is a very difficult thing to do .
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
24 Sep 09
I have insulted my best friend by accident by telling her while were getting ready to go out that it didn’t matter what she looked like and that it would be dark in the nightclub. My friend just looked at me and I went about my business without realising that I offended her; I felt so bad because it was not my intention, sometimes my foot is in my mouth before my brain has even registered!
As far as playing jokes goes I would think very carefully before trying to pull one off!
@chryslark (89)
• China
24 Sep 09
Thank for your response. Sometimes making apologies is really a very difficult thing . Once i offensed one of my best friends by trying to play a joke . It was not until sevveral days later that i found that i had offensed her . But then i apologised to her and she forgived me .