i am on the verge of losing my lover ?

First of all stop considering Emmanuel as your best friend. I don't know what you been through together for you to consider him as a best friend but what he did is clearly 100% betrayal of trust. As for your girlfriend I'm sure you could work it out. If you really love her do everything to make her believe that you've done nothing wrong, you don't have to admit anything except for the sole truth that you love her. I think your girlfriend would believe you if you just try to be sincere:)

Since you know for yourself that you did not cheat on her try to talk to her and be honest. Tell her evrything you have to say and explain why your "bestfriend" made up that story just to save himself. But at first when you go to her she doesn't like talking and listening to you at first. Try to tell her you will listen whatever she have to say without interuptions but for the condition that she have to listen to whatever you need to say to her without interuptions. And assure her that whatever she ask you, you will give a full honest anwer with that. Be sincere... Girls can feel that. Win her trust to win her back.. afterall it's her trust to you that matters.

You still call him as your best friend? Well i think that guy doesnt even treated you as his friend because of what he did. He almost destroy your relationship with your fiancee. He is just a selfish person who doesnt even care for the people around him. You diddnt cheated your fiancee so do anything to win her back and ask your friend to tell her the truth. Do not trust you friend again and beware.

You never cheated. Try to explain it to your girlfriend. I guess Emmanuel would not be you best friend after all since ha had done that to you. If he just won't listen and continue this outrage he'd been doing. It's time to talk to Emmanuel's girlfriend. It's not called backstabbing a friend, it's called doing what is right. Because that is the right thing to do. And I guess you may try to ask help from Emmanuel's girlfriend to try to convince your girlfriend the truth. Do what you can do to prove to her you weren't cheating. But remember: If she still doesn't go back to you after you made it perfectly clear that you are serious about her, it means she does not want to continue it anymore. Don't force yourself to someone who doesn't want. It would just make you a fool. Although I think that would hardly happen, seeing that the only reason why your girlfriend left you is because she has had the wrong idea of things. Which your so called bestfriend told her. Goodluck!

Please forgive her, I'm sure it was just the shock. Also, forgive Emmanuel, but not too, too quickly. Resolve your relationship with your fiance first, then deal with your friendship later. People do all kinds of crazy things over love and s*x. I'm glad your girlfriend is on her way. Be gentle with her.

gosh! that really hurts. of all the people, ur bestfriend did it to u?! thats too bad. i suggest u tell the truth to ur girlfriend about emmanuel's lie. if she really does'nt believe u convince emmanuel to tell her the truth. sometimes we have to sacrifice something if its worth it. i think what emmanuel did to u is not a friendly approach. don't talk to him anymore.

You shouldn't just accept it and let your girlfriend go on thinking that you cheated on her. If you let her go on thinking like that, then she will leave. I know if my husband had told me he never cheated and then his friend comes to me and says he did and I get mad and leave and my husband doesn't come to me and try to prove that he never cheated then I am going to continue to believe that he never cheated. She should take your word for it if you tell her you never cheated. Have you ever cheated on her in the past. You should tell her that she should not believe your friend over you. If she loves you enough, then she definitely should know that you did not cheat on him. You should really try and sit down and talk to her hopefully she really does believe you. It will be hard for you though if you have cheated on her in the past.

You still call him as your best friend? Well i think that guy doesnt even treated you as his friend because of what he did. He almost destroy your relationship with your fiancee. He is just a selfish person who doesnt even care for the people around him. You diddnt cheated your fiancee so do anything to win her back and ask your friend to tell her the truth. Do not trust you friend again and beware.