Do you think your best friend could be your worst enemy?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
September 24, 2009 3:54am CST
I do believed that best friend could be your best enemy. I take this instance with my mom and her best friend. They'd been good friend for almost 30 years. But all things turn bad when her best friend betrayed my mom for a huge amount of money. My mom knows that her friends family was really in financial trouble. My mom never thought that her only best friend would betrayed to her. But it's okay, though my mom can't still forgive her. Time will heal all wounds.
What would you do when your best friend turn to be your worst enemy?
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7 responses
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
i do not believe in that saying.i have my bestfriend for 15 years.we been friends since we were in grades school.we share ideas and mostly we do not have any misunderstanding or even fights.i love my friend very much i also treat her like my sister.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
It's partly true, since there are still good people around. And you're one of the luckiest person who has found a real good friend, it's like you've found a precious gem a diamond. Good for you amyson.
Thanks for sharing with us and have a great day!
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
your welcome same here.real friend is hard to find but good and bad friends are always around.pick one that treat you real one not those friend that treat you because you are rich or influential person but open your heart to person have treat you friend for so long those are real friends.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Yeah, you're right. Our best friend knows everything about us, even our deepest secret and fears, anytime he/she could able to ruin our life. It's like they were our shadow and knows everything about us. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
yeah, I agree with you lilaclady, nowadays it's hard to find a real good and true friend. It's like you're looking for a diamond and it's very rare. Even on my mom I never thought that all those years that they'd been together, her best friend would betray her. That only proved that years isn't enough to know a persons true character. Yeah, it's nice to have lots of friends than having a best friend who's not true.
Anyway thank you for sharing with us and have a great day!
@amit066 (41)
• India
1 Oct 09
i agree to you.i have experienced this in my college days.i think it does not happen usually unless you have a very serious matter to dispute.Same incident with my mom but later they got resolved.All you need is a good talk and conversation with your friend.never let grow the misunderstanding.Becouse "easy to lose someone by saying a lie,but difficult to get back that person by saying truth"Its a fact in everyday Life..Be true from your side and you never gonna lose someone special.Even if that happen just move on.If he is true to you.he/she will comeback soon
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
Yeah, it's very important not to let misunderstanding grow and never let another day passed by without reconciliation. In friendship it's important to have understanding but much important to have trust because it's the only thing that bond the friendship and if it's gone it's impossible to connect.
Thank you for sharing with us and have a great day!
@lichee_china (506)
• China
28 Oct 09
I dare not imagine it happy!I can't believe my best friend do anything harmful to me!sorry about that,when it comes to money,everything changed!I can't forgive him,like your mom,it was so sick,he broke the relationship.
@naojquimps (53)
• Philippines
23 Nov 09
Well, I do believe that best friend could be our best enemy. I have actually heard a lot of stories on it. Like what happened on my supervisor wherein her best friend for 15 years had betrayed her.Her best friend had made issues that lead to the postponement of their planned wedding. My supervisor of course had drawn a line between them. And until now, after 20 years since that incident happened, my supervisor haven't forgiven her best friend yet. This is really a sad story. That's why we should always be careful in choosing our best friend because they can be our best enemy.
@kd_fmay (554)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
Somehow, if their friendship shakes by so many trials and they did not overcome it, their relationship ruin their friendship.
