How to keep the relationship strong?
By areshstar
@areshstar (60)
Philippines
September 24, 2009 9:38pm CST
I am in a long distance relationship. I really want to keep this relationship because I love my boyfriend so much. Do you know ways of keeping this kind of relationship? If we see each other, what are the things that we can do so that our relationship would remain strong?
3 responses
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
25 Sep 09
the best way to have a long lasting relationship is to have patience and control over your anger.To gulp your anger is the best medicine ever to have the relation going far.Both should accompany each other in every sphere of life,whether its good time going or bad time.Both should be together to face it with full courage.
@Archie0 (5652)
•
25 Sep 09
always talk about your problems and be open
the more open you are the more you two will be able to confide in each other and be honest..you two will connect and become closer.
always keep an aire of mistery too..this keeps you two wanting each other and not getting tired of each other
if you two spen every single day together..u 2 will get tired of each other and wont last very long.
so if he texts you one day wait 10 minutes before texting back to keep him wondering what you were doing.
also try to not see each other for days..it helps and its good to miss him because then when u two are together it makes it that much better.
@areshstar (60)
• Philippines
26 Sep 09
i love your idea. i will try that. hope it works for the both of us..
@areshstar (60)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
gulping anger is quite hard. when i'm angry, i express it out loud to my boyfriend. i cannot control myself from saying nasty things. he gets hurt and i feel sorry afterwards.. :( but now, i will do my best to control my anger..
@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
just trust him and always keep in touch.. understand him if he can't make to call you everyday and don't forget to pray.. GOD needs to be the center of your relationship and without HIM both of you are nothing.. good luck to the
both of you and continue to spread your love to him..
@areshstar (60)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
i am hit by what you said "understand him if he can't make to call you everyday" :D i always get angry if he failed to do so. now, i will try to be calm and understand his situation of why he cannot call me..
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
25 Sep 09
Hi,That's good discussion.First of all trust and love between 2 are most important.Then remember other one's Date of birth etc., important dates for wishing.Send greetings for every important occasions.Any way chatting,phones are there.These are some of my ideas only.All the best and have a nice time.
@areshstar (60)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
yes, we remember special dates. during our monthsaries, we call each other and text the whole night. but unfortunately, we sometimes quarrel during special occasions.
