love before and after marriage?
By anjanabs
@anjanabs (127)
India
September 24, 2009 10:57pm CST
what is the difference between love before marriage and love after marriage.my marriage was an arranged one.some of my friends told that love before marriage is so sweet. when the lovers tied up with marriage lot of problems are arising between them. what is your opinion about this?
6 responses
@daliaj (5674)
• India
25 Sep 09
I don't think there is a big difference between love before and after marriage. When, I got married many people adviced that it is the end of ove. But, nothing happened like that. I felt that love deepens and sweetens after marriage. It is normal to have problems, but the way you handle it makes the difference. Proper understanding makes the love everlasting.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
25 Sep 09
Hi, i believe that love is a process. It does not happen overnight although most people would nosedive into a relationship without really making sure that what they have is love.
I guess the best is still marrying someone that you really love. Instead of marrying someone you don't love and you just have to learn to love the person after you get married. Love works in mysetrious ways so sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't. We sometimes owe it to fate.
As for me, I want love before marriage because love takes time. It's not something you are just forced to swallow because there is no other choice.
@masteronline (834)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 09
In my opinion, love after marriage more enjoyable and more fun. I love more than before marriage. She give me two sons, she always give me happiness at home
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
25 Sep 09
I think love before marrige and after marrige has no difference..for those peoples..who make love truely.. and don't forger their love..lifetime.. i am also in that favour.. that love is same before marrige and after marrige..