Have you been secretly inlove?

Well, I have done it many times but it is quite boring when it is not into actuality. It is like a dream, ready to be gone and fades if not going to be put into in actions. it remains just a plain simple inspiration and sometimes lead to desperation if unable to express this feeling that been hiding in your hearts for years. unless this person notice you or reciprocate with the same feelings or emotions which you like to happen but impossible if remain unnoticed.

Oh, yes! For five years, no less! I don't know his whereabout now. But for some reason I am sure I'll still get butterflies when I see him. But then again, maybe...

i have loved secretly with a friend also. well the sad thing about it is that i can't just tell him the truth because he's already taken and i don't want to hurt the girl. * he was my friend back when i was still a high school student. i knew him because we have a lot of common friends. we've dated (just a friendly date) for months and i was really hoping that we could go far as lovers. weeks after he confessed that he was in love with me, i was about to confess to him that i really liked him too but his girlfriend abroad got home and ave me a call that i should stay from her guy. i got hurt and after that i didn't answered any calls coming from the guy. i really expected that we'll end as lovers but it didn't happened. for a year and a half, i find myself longing for that person because i haven't got the chance to tell him. i just don't want to ruin any relationship just because i stole the guy away from another girl... :( recently, i found out that they're already planning to get married... good for them... at least now, i can say that i can already moved on... :D i'm happy with my boyfriends and he's happy with his future wife...

I'm in love with a man right now who has no idea. It's really weird because I feel really connected to him, but our personalities are a little different. We listen to different music, he likes Texas and I want to move up north one day. We have things in common, though. We both love animals, and we both love music in general even if we don't like the same music. His singing is one of the the traits that made me fall in love with him in the first place. He's the only person I feel comfortable talking to. We're not even really friends, yet I trust him completely. I frequent his place of business (that's the only way we know each other - we've never seen each other outside of his work) so I'm afraid to say anything to him.

yes yes been secretly inlove once, mmm i like this topic, t'was a funny memory. i've been secretly inlove with a guy, his initials R.M.A., for 8-9 long years? we are very close friend for that matter, classmate, sitmate for 3yrs. in h.s. days hahaha, BUT he had no idea LOL! until, i decided to tell him in the end, i was 20? 21? really, just to put some stone in my head, to wake me up, coz i knew all along that he just like me for a friend, still i wanted to hear his comment, no matter how hurt t'was that time...and it did worked when he said NO! and to tell you, i did not cried. after that, i met my husband...there, my ever destined man, love him so much like no other in this world, and hoping, set the rest of my life with him. i've never regret have felt that "secret love" once, long time ago, t'was a happy memory. thanks R.M.A. may God bless us each with our family. thanks for this discussion, happy lotters dear",)