If it makes you feel uncomfortable, you can just leave!

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Every few years the "nursing in public" issue returns to the Wisconsin state legislature and to the forfront of casual political discussion. Apparently it's that time again. This discussion isn't about nursing in public though (so please spare me the lectures). This is about the whole attitude of "if it makes you feel uncomfortable, you can just leave!". The whole purpose of the laws "allowing" nursing mothers to feed their babies anywhere and everywhere has to do with how people have made the mothers feel uncomfortable. Most have been passive actions, like staring, kids snickering or people making too big a gesture of overting their eyes. Other acts have been more overt, like talking about her loud enough for her to hear, pointing, or the most overt... someone walking up to her and telling her she should be doing that somewhere else. The common denominator in both the passive and overt gestures is, some people around her are feeling uncomfortable by what she is doing. They are letting her know how they feel, and if she is uncomfortable with that, she "can just leave". But the laws that protect women's rights to nurse their baby anytime, anywhere, anyhow pretty much turn the table. They shield the mother from anybody's feelings about what she is doing, no matter how she is doing it. She apparently is the only one in the public place whose feelings of discomfort matter. If anyone else in the room (including those who own the room) feel uncomfortable with anything from the act of nursing to the exposing of nipples, they don't matter one little bit. But if she is made to feel uncomfortable by anyone else, well then the perpetrator must be punished! So how is her comfort so important that it must be protected by law? Why does she get support while everyone else gets discriminated against? Why doesn't "if it makes you feel uncomfortable, you can just leave!" go both ways? Can anyone think of any other situation where the law discriminates against everyone in favor of one person's comfort? ::::::: Disclaimer for the Dense :::::::::: This discussion is NOT about whether or not I feel nursing in public is appropriate. I happen to think it is. If your comments on this topic are nothing but rants, lectures, explanations or anything else trying to "educate" me on the benefits of nursing, I will simply mark a negative rating and probably call you names for being dense and illiterate. The topic today is about COMFORT and why some people's comfort is somehow more important than others. ::::::: Disclaimer to the Dense :::::::::::::