Someone accessing your personal emails and other personal sites...
@ccarabuena (442)
Cebu, Philippines
September 26, 2009 6:13am CST
I never thought that someone could access my personal email, other dating sites and all my
personal account that i've joined. It's amazing how people could do that isn't? How do you feel about it?
Some of you might feel bad, angry to that person who's accessing your personal stuff without your knowledge right?
Especially if that person is just right beside you and happened to be the love of your life.
Well, there are some personal things in our lives that its hard to share it with other people
even to your bestfriend. But unfortuantely it happened to me. Well, I'm not mad at him in fact
I was very thankful atleast I will not be having a hard time to deal with it and how to say all the things
that im keeping all this time. It's not that bad as what you think, its all about exchanging emails with guys
that you've know in the past; friends emails and conversation with my bestfriend about him.
It does not contain bad words either about him. The funny thing about it is that he admit it, i dont know why
but he told me it is because he is curious about one of my guy in the past.
So, what about you? how will you feel about it?
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12 responses
@involved62 (790)
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26 Sep 09
It has not happened to me but if it does, I will feel very betrayed. It is an invasion of privacy. If somebody wants to know something, they just have to ask me upfront. I can only say yes or no. If I choose not to divulge everything, then it is my right. I cannot possibly bare everything to everyone.
@ccarabuena (442)
• Cebu, Philippines
26 Sep 09
yeah its really an invasion of privacy but
its too late you know
@involved62 (790)
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26 Sep 09
Never too late. True, you cannot undo it but you can prevent it from happening again. Do you still trust him? If he went to great lengths to know your past relationships, then this is an indication that he is not sure that you are completely honest with him. Shouldn't honesty and trust be the foundations of a stong relationship? Just thinking...
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Sep 09
Well,that is one sign of being insecured and jealousy.
He loves you that much that he was able to do things which he personally known is not right.
But due to his love,that caused him insecurities maybe.Or maybe jealous about your past which is natural.
@ccarabuena (442)
• Cebu, Philippines
28 Sep 09
If he's really jealous that's a really good thing to know because he is a silent type of guy,
serious and a man in action. But whenever I ask him if he's jealous he will just say i dont know..
maybe...and that made me confused.
@rainmark (4302)
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26 Sep 09
If that happened to me that someone dare to access and read my personal stuff, i definitely feel unhappy and angry with it coz he don't respect my privacy, and i will gonna confront and not going to talk to him/her.
But in my case, i share my online activities to my hubby, i give him permission to open my account, for my social networks i share it to my sister too coz i do trust them and i don't hide anything.
But in your case, I'm very disappointed to the person who done this to you.
Happy myLoting.
@ccarabuena (442)
• Cebu, Philippines
26 Sep 09
thank you for you sympathy...
well honestly its kinda 50/50
I feel that i dont have privacy anymore eventhough
i will change my password he already knew all my access..
@charlies2805 (777)
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26 Sep 09
Well, it WAS amazing but now it IS not amazing anymore since the technology are keep growing from time to time. It is annoying when someone uses your personal e-mail, or sneaks on your personal account. But what can we do, technology lets people do just that. If someone uses my personal account, in the meaning of password etc, I will change it all. I know that warning that 'someone' doesn't help me much. He can do it all over again, and nobody takes an eye on him.
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
26 Sep 09
oh wow...
i couldnt imagine that happening to me...
I might be very upset, disappointed...hurt...feel betrayed...
but I might also look at myself and ask what prompted him to do such thing... could it be that I have my own shortcomings too...am i keeping soemthing form him and maybe he could feel it.....
i don't know...i dont really know how to deal with it unless it happens to me....
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@Craicha (801)
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26 Sep 09
if you asked me will i do share my account in any sites i joined to my BF and kids too but only this mylot i dont share my account here from my kids but just in BF...and my BF does shared in me to me...its a matter of trust, if happen i got messages from guys want to get reach in me sometimes or manytimes my BF read there messages but the fact there is i dont bother contact or get in touch with other guys.......coz i had already got a BF, and we both shared lots of things like whats going on around us and etcs....:)
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Sep 09
ccarabuena I dislike that very much as if my boy friend
or hubby did not trust me enough to not leave my'email and websites alone then he doesn't trust me at all. My hubby
did trust me and he would never have gone through my
stuff at all.
@ccarabuena (442)
• Cebu, Philippines
27 Sep 09
well i do think that way, maybe he's not trusting me..
maybe that's the reason why until now where together but no commitment..
TRUST isn't there at all..I'm really confused.
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
26 Sep 09
I think he's mental. I would feel like that if someone I barely know digging my emails and details for fun. Plus, he admit it. Even if someone I know, I feel it's completely a betrayal and invasion on my privacy. My emails is personal, not even my partner can check it. I don't want to be near anyone like this. It's like being stalk and that particular person is too obsessed. Scary~~~
@ccarabuena (442)
• Cebu, Philippines
27 Sep 09
do you really think that its an obsession?
well i still trust him coz i love him.
I dont know if you guys do feel the same as I do,
I dont feel hatred in my heart but i feel sad :(
@workoutfreak (377)
• Indonesia
26 Sep 09
i was upset when someone hacked my email or everything online. however, if that was my mistake not sign out after open an email, what could i do then.
@ccarabuena (442)
• Cebu, Philippines
26 Sep 09
well in my case he reallr search for my password
im kinda upset but you know there's nothing that i can do then.
it happen already :(
@l33tgirl (288)
• New Zealand
27 Sep 09
My boyfriend sometimes picks up my cell phone and goes through my messages and I'm usually ok with it since I have nothing to hide but I can't help think that it's not cool. I would never snoop through his things so yes I think it's a violation of privacy. I'd be pretty annoyed if someone accessed my facebook and other sites.
@ccarabuena (442)
• Cebu, Philippines
28 Sep 09
Cellphone is another issue for us, I never sneak in his cellphone and read his messages because I dont want him to do that
to me. But one time I left my phone at home and of course he was there and I never thought that sent items folder was turn on
so all my sent messages was there and it was about confiding my feelings to my bestfriend how exhausted and gurt I am
when I saw his and x-girlfriend pics and M.U gf that I'm jealous with in his floppy disk because i was about to transfer files in that
disk but found out that there's something in there. I keep it to myself until my heart burst out and cant hide it anymore.
But i end up saying sorry, and I'm just wondering why I did that? is it my fault to accidentally saw those pictures?
@lordcaocao2025 (4098)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 09
Well first of all, i will never share my mail password with anyone. Not even with my loved ones. And i also never share my social networking password to other. Password was created to make sure the no one but us can access the site, if you shared your password with other, then you cannot be mad with them if they are accessing your private stuff.
The case is different if somehow they steal our password. I Would be mad if that the case.
Thanks
