It is hard to Move ON....
By fler
@feodda (579)
Philippines
September 26, 2009 7:54pm CST
After all the trauma in love, I find to be picky in love.
It is hard to move on after all the hurts and pains that my ex give to me.
I am afraid to fall in love again and be hurt once again.
5 responses
@Archie0 (5652)
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29 Sep 09
Good educational move on your part! It is hard after you break up with someone. Feelings, real and raw still linger around inside you. Keep looking towards the future. You don't need a person who is going to hold you back in life. And if you are good looking, maybe guys are intimidated by you. Maybe they think you have a man! Concentrate on your education and Mr. Right will come along when you're not looking so hard.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
29 Sep 09
it's good to hear that you're really over with your ex boyfriend... :D i hope that your current boyfriend won't do the same thing that your ex boyfriend did and i hope that you'll appreciate every little good things that your boyfriend does... happy mylotting!!! :D
@tobosoi (12)
• Philippines
29 Sep 09
being hurt is a normal process when it comes for love..it is a trial and error for love...if you meant each other no matter what trials is that will not push through..coz in the first place you love each other.. the most important thing that a relationship will survive has communication and respect to each other..if there is respect there is love..no matter what happen to your relationship there is a prosperity and happines that come a long the way...most important is RESPECT.. without respect you cannot love....
@spicysweetie21 (2573)
• United States
27 Sep 09
I know exactly what you mean, I recently broke up a relationship, and I was planning on waiting a long time to even casually date someone, but one thing led to another, and now i have been on 3 dates so far with this guy who just gives me the butterflies and he is really great. It is extremely scary and I find myself putting a large wall up around my feelings, and I am taking it extremely slow. And so far, it is all going okay. So my advice to you is don't be afraid of what life may bring you, life may bring you the real true love of your life, but don't let your fear prevent it from even possibly developing. Go slow, protect yourself, but still live your life and open your life to others.
@feodda (579)
• Philippines
27 Sep 09
I'm getting slowly moving on but I also protect my heart and my self.
I get this feeling that I really fall in love with the person I know with, but there is something that I'm afraid of. Is losing him, because I have love him already.
I have to take it slow.
@Craicha (801)
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27 Sep 09
its hard to move on that if you still remembering the hurts he given to you....we fall in love we will get hurts too...its good if your realtuionship endup early before you to much in love with him thats hurting most...dnt be sad its nah ur lost anyway coz you love him truly, if he only hurts u let the karma go after him and dnt ever course and comdemned person hurts u coz its bad....in what happening to outr life theres a reason for it...so no.1 reason you both are nah meant for eachother.....so why stick to the person who dnt care for you...go 4ward move on the guy that meant for you is there waiting you ahead how can you met him if you'l moving on....so cheer up girl, its nah the end of the world...:)
@ticob1965 (29)
• Canada
27 Sep 09
You should not be afraid to love. We all suffer from a broken heart atleast once in our lifetime. The trick is to learn from it.If we were all afraid to be hurt we would be robots
