being fat?????????????
By vaideki
@vaideki (19)
India
September 27, 2009 2:22am CST
Order of the day is to the stay in shape. people like to stay in shape for different reasons. 1.Bcoz it gives them confidence.
2.bcoz u can fit into any dress. (people who are even little over weight have real hard time finding a dress that they like and fits in too in terms of shape and budget)
3.bcoz they wanna be healthy (but r all slim structures are really heathy?)
4.bcoz guys look only at girls with good structure
Tell me if there are more reasons.
Are people who are really plump feel bad about themselves or does the society and the way we look at them makes them feel bad?
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2 responses
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Hello Vaideki, and welcome to MyLot! Not all people who are plump feel bad about it. Many have as much self-confidence as anyone should have. And no, slimness does not automatically equal good health. One can even be too thin!
I think if the main focus is on health and feeling comfortable in one's own skin and being able to enjoy life are the best reasons to want to maintain fitness or stay at a healthy weight. And one should do so for the self and not to please society, family, or a partner!
Karen@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
29 Sep 09
Thank you for giving me the "best response." I hope you have a beautiful day.
Karen
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Well, I consider myself being fat, I know I need to lose some weight, I am going to start walking that always help. and maybe walk 3 times a day, you wil lose weight for sure during this. I did it for a while and lose weight very good, then I picked it back up. But I would advise anyone to walk at least 3x a day. everyday.
