what will you do if you find your boyfriend/girl friend reading your diary

I would lose a lot of trust in that person. A diary is something of personal matters and for them to break your trust and just read YOUR thoughts and YOUR ideas i would feel a bit violated. A diary is ment for you and you only thats why diaries are special. Diaries would have no value or no one would write them. You could just call them auto biographies if they were ment for everyone. So I would feel like they had broken my trust if they were reading my diary.

i would really be hurt aout this, actually. it is so hard to feel you ar enot free to write your thoughts, etc and that your bf does not trust you enough to even bther try to read your diary. if this cannot be avoided, i would suggest you to just create a online diary where you are the only one who knows your user name and password.

Well I'd be ticked off that my husband was snooping in my room for starters (we dont share a bedroom btw)..then I'd be ticked off that he was reading my personal things rather than asking me first....If he wanted to read it all he would have had to do is ask me..

He is faking it and looks stupid because you caught him red-handed doing something which a normal ethical person would not do. Next time, create a diary blog and write all your personal feelings in there. Make sure no one can access to it but you.I do hope he read the @#$$%%@@??x!!! words that you wrote about him so that he will know how to treat you better!

Hello. If you really trust on your boyfriend and have build a solid relationship with him,, just trust his word and assume he is talking the truth. I'm pretty sure he was ling when he told you that he took your diary by mistake, but I can't be 100% sure since I don't know him. If you ever break up and need some support, you can look for me :p

I would say that would be invasion of privacy, and even he is your boyfriend he doesn't have the right to read any private material without your permission. If I was in your situation I think I will be mad at him for I don't know how long. I treasure most of my things so I wouldn't want anyone to meddle with them. If he says he's sorry and he's sincere with it, then you can forgive him. But that doesn't change the fact that he looked at your diary so you must take good care of it next time. And also, make sure that he is not lying about not being able to read the contents of the diary. It is a matter of trust between the two of you in any way.

This is simply unacceptable for me though, Once when I went in the bathroom to take a shower and came back after some time I found my boyfriend in front of my laptop and he told me that the mail(which was a shortcut to my desktop) is very funny. I laugh and then I realized that he has open the folder to see what was there inside so he has probably seen every folder also. I was really angry and from that day I have a password in my laptop now. There is nothing to hide but still I like my privacy at least in my laptop.

Hello! If the boyfriend/girlfriend wants to feel hurt, go ahead and read the diary. A diary is the most sincere and honest thoughts of you that should not be shared by others especially when you are writing the ups and downs of your relationship. I didn't have a diary, but I would always write something in a notebook, just at random time of what I was feeling. At that time, my fiance *now he's my hubby* was trying to find something to read and I didn't know he took the notebook. He suddenly went on moody and upset, and he left me a note telling me maybe he's not the man that's right for me and all those nonsense! When finally he told me that he has read what I have written down about the man I used to be in love before, I think he got jealous and hurt. That was my past relationship, but you know when you wrote something deep, it would leave a big impression to the other person who read it. I cried and I told him that it was only meant for me to read. It was my past and he should not interfere! Things got better after a while. So, if I were in your situation, I would understand why you were angry. I was real mad, too and hurt, but we have worked things out. So, just talk to him and share this story with him. All the best!!!

hi, it does not matter if you have anything to hide from your girlfriend. As far as I am concerned, there is nothing in the world that I do not want to share with my girlfriend. Please do not scold her for reading your diary. Not for anything if your girlfriend is loyal to you. I will not take it serious because I would have given her my diary myself if she had asked me.

hi, well i seldom write a diary. but my boyfriend always watch my text messages. for me, i do not mind him doing this. actually he likes to check my text message just to see that whether i am in close contact with other guys. i do not have, so i am not afraid of him to do so. and i never say bad words of him to friends. so nothing i need to hide.