She's done stuff with other guys, what do I do?

Why you let your relationship end if you loved and still love this person?

be cool did she confide or you came to know otherway look ahead and thigs going to shape as moments pass by it will show you the way to your desicion cheers

I can understand this and I sympathize with you. Sounds like she is confused and doesn't know what she wants. I've seen some girl intentionally provoke a fight so they can walk away from the relationship with a clear conscience. Sad, but true. That she said she needed to clear her head? I"m sorry I don't buy that. If she is out messing around with other guys then she still doesn't know what she wants and she doesn't know how to clear her own head. Personally, I think she is immature. People who jump out of a relationship to jump back into one is saying they are lost and just trying to replace or bury whatever feelings they have. She might not be ready for a commitment, she might not understand how much you really care of her, your whole relationship migh also have been one sided where you cared for her and she didn't for you. It's hard call there trying to figure it out. Personally, if she is out there with other guys though, sounds like you need to move on. She clearly doesn't know what she wants and if she has to sleep around to find it - well, is that really something you want to be attached to? I think you need to look long and hard at what you had and what she is doing now and rethink if this is really a long time relationship or was she just passing time with you till something better came along. Sorry a bit crude, but I've seen it before.

If she wanted time off, then you should give it to her, and not judge her for the actions she took during this break. There is still the possibility that i the future she will want to sit down with you and talk about your relationship. I think you would be better to let her go for now. Sitting around obsessing over her, and what she is doing is not helping you, or any possibility of a future relationship re-hash. And look at it this way, at least she waited until you two weren't together before she hooked up with someone else. She gave you at least that in the terms of respect. Her feelings about wanting to take time off didn't come in the blink of an eye, and if she had been feeling this way for a while (which i am sure she was, as girls tend not to make descisions like this overnight) she could have just gone out and cheated on you while you were still together, then come to you and said she wanted a break.

Let go and move on life is too short to sit back and wait on anyone. There are more fish in sea. I would not talk to her because all that does is make you think of her. She knows this she's playing with heart. So i would say use your head (not the one between yuour legs either) move on and get yourself a real Lady.

I have come across a similar situation, thing is i lost the love on her and started loving her body..

Wait-she is your ex? If you guys are over, the you can't let these things bother you. You have to let it go, or you will find yourself going insane.