Do you keep a diary?
By AmuletGirl
@AmuletGirl (124)
Canada
September 27, 2009 2:04pm CST
The question is, do you keep a diary?
When I was in Elementary School, the teacher made us write in our journal twice a week, and hand it in to get them marked. Everytime we wrote a very good entry, we receive a sticker. Ever since that assignment began, I had a keen interest in keeping my own diary that no one will ever read, and write all my deepest and truest feelings into it.
So I started one, but soon discovered that it was really hard for me to be honest with myself. I don't know why, but I couldn't write anything really personal. Then, I started losing interest and wrote in my diary less and less often.
Now, I still keep a diary, and I write in it occasionally. I try to write it as actively and as honestly as Anne Frank, but I just can't.
What about you? What's your experience with keeping a diary? How often do you write in it? Do you share it with anybody else?
8 responses
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
Hi AmuletGirl!
I still do have a diary until now. I have blogs and stuff, but nothing beats having to write down my thoughts :) I have NEVER shared any of its contents to anyone else! I write in it whenever I have the urge to write something down, something that I couldn't post online. My deepest and darkest secrets are all contained in a cute notebook that I keep somewhere in my room :)
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
I have never shared it to my family members, I stand corrected :) My friends know about some of my entries, especially the ones about my messed up so-called love life! LOL :D
@DCLehnsherr (1037)
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27 Sep 09
Hi AmuletGirl,
I keep a combined food dairy and normal diary at the moment. I did used to try and do separate ones but I kept never doing the normal diary so I combined them. Each day I write what I ate, how much exercise I did, and then what I did, and how I felt. It is only an A4 sheet of paper so there isn't an awful lot of room, but it helps me to wind some things up in my mind, or to clear things. I am aided by the fact I have a keen interest in myself, my past and how I change over time. I am not egotistical (I hope) but psychology fascinates me and the fact I don't have records from some of my worst times upsets me, so to ensure that never happens again i write things down. I also like being able to wonder what i was doing last year or the year before, and read about it in the diary, it is a nice buzz. I think that if anyone else ever read it though they would find it boring. I write it for myself and no one else so it is full of what interests me.
On the note of not being honest, I came across that recently. There was a feeling I got caught up in which I found a little shameful. It isn't anything bad but it involved admitting something to myself, and it took me a few days to actually write it down in my diary. I feel better now I had, and it was interesting to see the reluctance too.
Uhh and another reason I write a diary, I learn things. I have learnt so much about myself from the thoughts that appear. I write exactly as I think things, so being forced to think and write helps me to understand, sort of like doing this now does too.
All the best,
Dranz
@AmuletGirl (124)
• Canada
28 Sep 09
Wow, you must be having a very healthy life, to be keeping track of what you eat and how much you exercise :D I also agree with you on many things you said. I'm very interested in looking back and see what I wrote before. Sometimes I read my past diary entries and think, so that's how I felt then! And sometimes it brings up bad memories, but still, it feels good to remember. So thanks for your insights!
@DCLehnsherr (1037)
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28 Sep 09
Hi AmuletGirl,
Many thanks for the BR and I am glad you liked the insights
All the best,
Dranz
@Ithink (9980)
• United States
28 Sep 09
I used to keep a diary in paper and then I dont know just got to busy. I then started one online as Im online alot working I havent been there thou close to a year. Things in our family drastically changed and I just havent found the time to go.
I am brutally honest in my diaries thou. To honest some may say. LOL! However if you cant even be honest with yourself, how can you ever be honest with someone else? I do allow people to read my diary too. I had some nice people that I meet there. Hmmm think Im gonna go back and see if I can get into it again. I do miss those I used to read.
Anyways, so the answer is yes I have had one it is about a year old and I shared it online with the rest of the community.
@Purviolilav (112)
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
Hi, AmuletGirl! I started keeping a diary when I was in high school as during my elementary days slumbooks were very popular though some of my classmates then had diaries. Keeping a diary helped me a lot in high school as I was very introvert then with low self-esteem...there I write my true feelings, my poems, my songs, my drawings, etc. Probably it was here when I had develop myself in written communication as my diary is a compilation of the letters I wrote to a dearest friend that I never had (like an invisible friend). However, there was one classmate who was very nosy and was able to get a hold of my diary and read some out loud in front of a lot of students without warning so since then I stopped...because I felt betrayed or mocked because I wrote everything true about myself even my deepest darkest secret which many did not know. I kept this diary until it got burned because of termite infestation in the dormitory I lived in college. Right now, I do not have a diary as I can't write as diligent as before due to time constraints...besides I had a lot of friends in mylot and facebook to write to instead. God bless! Have a great day ahead!
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
27 Sep 09
Hi,Amul,i used to write diary till i got the age of 27 years that too mainly day to day happenings,regarding special occasions like fastivals,birth days etcBut once i started my business activities i confined to write diary for only business matters.Have a nice time.
@AmuletGirl (124)
• Canada
27 Sep 09
I know, it's hard to keep a daily diary when you are busy with your work and business. Happy Mylotting!
@lena12 (15)
• Mauritius
28 Sep 09
I started a diary every new year I think, and my first entry was always this :
I think it's about time I had a PROPER diary and I hope I can add at least one entry each day.
But after a few weeks my entries would seem alike and I'd give up altogether. Besides I wanted to write about exciting things but all that I had to write about was my complaints with homework and my insufficient allowance and all I wanted to buy.
A few months ago I found an old diary and boy was I laughing my head off!