Some time Mom and Dad wrong with us.........!?
By tariqsahiwal
@tariqsahiwal (223)
United Arab Emirates
September 28, 2009 12:28am CST
i am thinking about my parents are So Sweet So Cute. but some time when they have to decide something, but i did not like that decision then i thought my parents wrong with me. then i forget their Love and i want take the decision in my hand. what you think Mom and Dad ever right or some time wrong?
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8 responses
@abidmian (131)
• United States
28 Sep 09
your mom and dad have a lot experience of life. So they do best which they consider best in view of their experience. We may be wrong at that time when we think our decision is perfect. Don't forget them at any stage of your life because they are well wisher of their children.
@OrangJuice (687)
• China
28 Sep 09
Yeah, you're right! I confess my parents loves me very much, but sometimes they do misunderstand me. It makes me sad and angry. They don't respect my own opionions then.
But you know, deep communication usually works well in such situation. Because, basically, your parents love you very much! Please remember it all the time. They just want to give you the best as per their opionions.
So you should be calm firstly, then try to talk with them, tell them your feelings and opioions. After all, it's your life, not theirs. I think you will get what you want.
I confess sometimes they have more experience on somethings, and they don't want us to come to grief. But I always tell my parents, if I don't experience feeling of pain, I never learn something really. (It likes to learn walking.)
A few years ago, I get along bad with my father. But now, I'm trying to talk with him more. Our relationship is better than before, though the progress is slight.
I think you will make it! Right? Because you do love your parents, too!
@ktosea (2026)
• China
28 Sep 09
yeah it's very normal and just a natural thing to be right for many cases but wrong with other cases.that's normal my friend.but you think about what your parents suggest because after the thing it turns out in most cases that our parents are right but we are wrong.
@wingain2004 (24)
• China
28 Sep 09
There is a saying goes: Every man has his faults.Our parents are no exception.The thing is if you hold different opinion with your parents in what way you transfer your thoughts to them. The right thing is you just be gentle and state your minds to them, no anger, no complain just try to persuade them. Sometimes you should think that they are much older them you, they get richer experience than you, so, you should think over how they make this kind of decision but not others. Anyway, if they really wrong, you could also make your own decision and do what you think you should do.
@sophia10 (86)
• China
28 Sep 09
hi!when i was young,i would follow their opinions in general,because i did not know what i really want.but i can judge now,so the relationship between my parents and me is based on respect,they always show me their ideas,but never oder me.even though i will not take their ideas,i am willing to listen to them,they need to be respected.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
28 Sep 09
ya friend sometimes they take rubbish decisions for us and they think we are kids but we are grown enough to take our decisions we need there suggestions but we should use our own haed and do those things that are good for us.
@dolmitta (221)
• India
28 Sep 09
Yeah! Everybody make mistakes. So, even our parents sometime take wrong decisions. I feel they are not too stubborn in the decisions they take. They always take my suggestion. At times they take really good and fantastic decisions... So i think these days parents are pretty understanding and allow their children to give their suggestions in all the issues raised.