does aids test necessary before marrige?

Too horrible, you even don't trust your lover to this degree, I think if you should conside to delay your wedding for some days...it's unbelievable that you don't any understanding about your lover like this and you can plan for your marriage, it's crazy for me like this,,,

if u r confident about urself and u never had it before u never need to worry but its just a formality u need to do and b confident bout urself

I think that it is a good idea. While I understand what some of the other posters are trying to say, someone can be infected with HIV or some other disease and not know it right away. You don't have $ex with an infected person and wake up the next day knowing you have HIV. If a person wants the test done because they do not TRUST their partner, then they should not be getting married at all - period. But if the issue is not about TRUST but rather about safety - then yes - test!! Imagine someone trusting their new husband and they go without testing. He was completely honest with her about everyone he has been with and when he was when them. The last woman he slept with however, was not so honest with him and decieved him - slept with him even knowing that she has HIV...this happens all the time... So the new husband could pass this on to the new wife - without knowing - and she quickly becomes pregnant after their marriage and passes it onto their new child. Again, if the issue is trust - you need a lie detector test and a box to move all of your crap away from your partner to start a new life. If it is about physical safety of yourself and your unborn children - TEST - TEST - TEST!! I have heard so many guys and girls say, well, they trust "so'n'so" only sleep with one person and they don't believe that they could have anything...but what about the person that person slept with and all of the people that those people have slept with? It's not just about trusting your partner - but trusting everyone that he or she has been with.

I think this is a very good step to take before marrying someone and for those who prefer to stay together also should be taking the test before coming together, because we never know if the person is hiding or does not know himself or herself. To trust someone is very good and to be with someone much more longer also is very good and if the test can save lives then why not doing it. I know my boyfriend very well and we have made love many times. We have both checked ourselves before being together. And if one day he comes back from a business tour I will surely be asking him to do the test again and I want to live healthy too. There is nothing bad in doing a test.

for me it's an insulting idea, in my own opinion you can trace the person.. knowing his/her background is enough and you can distinguish it also on their physical appearance.. but if this will work, well you can try it also.. but for me i can't do it..

Hello my friend I believe its good to know, why wait til after you tie the knot to find out this is something that can be an issue I have heard many stories about things like this, people have lost their life marrying someone with tis disease, she met this man in church and this woman was so sweet, she was single for a long time and then she thought she found the one then this Thank you.