Do you always have disagreement with your friends and what will you do?
By chelseaalawn
@chelseaalawn (717)
Hong Kong
September 28, 2009 10:08am CST
The last Saturday. Actually it is really not a big deal. Me and my friends are talking about where to go and what to do on a special holiday. But we have disagreement and so A became mad at another friend(I call it C). C dont know what to do with A. C just blame herself for making A mad. C asked me what should she do. However, I dont really have any idea for what to do. And I found that I dont really know how to communicate with my friends. Do you have any suggestion? Can you tell me what I should do when I am facing these kinda porblems?
2 responses
@gracefuldove (1668)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 09
I think we should all be sensitive to the nature of our friends. No one should go on an ego trip. The "we-ness" in friends must dominate above individualism. In this case, get a third party to talk to A. communicate with him if he is willing to let bygones be bygones. If friendship means a great deal to him, he will relent.
@neo_matrix (884)
• India
28 Sep 09
i feel little disagreements are sometimes necessary to strengthen any relationship.everything goody goody can in itself be a problem.its a good thing to know of all the existing viewpoints on a event.so thats nothing big deal unless and untill you people have great communication with eachother.be honest and straightforward and you all might agree to aome common path or forget the controversial topic all together.
