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She tried getting my attention, how should I procede
By bbpstudios
@bbpstudios (320)
United States
September 28, 2009 5:59pm CST
Hey again guys. Now I know that the recent kinds of posts that I've been sending lately have little to do with my company, but I figure - why not use a great place like MyLot to get some general answers on topics that I need while I'm here.
So heres the question. Recently as some of you know, my Ex and I who I am madly in love with broke up. A lot of people are telling me to give her time. I think that it may be working. But recently I've found out somethings about what she's been up to while we've been broken up that make it discouraging to want her back. However, she has, over the coarse of the day, give me a kick to the back(to get my attention), and a smile. Now I'm not sure why, and I would love to know from experienced lovers to give some advice. She is very stubborn, but to be honest I almost enjoy that about her. Well any who - any advice?
Thanks guys, BBP-Studios
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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29 Sep 09
Well i would say if you love her as much as you say you do then i would do everything to encourage her back to you as it may be too late if you leave it too long.She may find someone else which we know would hurt you but perhaps she think that you do not feel as strong for her as you used to.Good luck.
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@bbpstudios (320)
• United States
29 Sep 09
Thanks for the advice friend, have good days.
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@Realsmack (155)
• United States
29 Sep 09
I'm just going to keep it one hundred with you, if it's meant for you to have her then she will come back to you. If it isn't meant to be then guess what? She wasn't yours to begin with. Let her do her thing and in the mean time don't be afraid to do yours. The worst thing you can do is sit around and sulk over someone who might not be sulking over you.
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
bbpstudios,
Already this relationship with your ex, as it seems to me, have signs of a mutual desire in wanting out, but is hindered apparently for some unspoken reason(s).
Without growth in a relationship, let me assure you that there's really very little to look forward to.
Time change, people change and therefore needs change as well. True Love being always a constant is just different to our needs. Our needs changes as our inner self develops thus causing our self condition to change too. So, whatever the your ex and you have had years ago just might not be the same tomorrow, day after tomorrow, months or years later.
Surely there are reasons why you two ended up together back then, but when we spiritually and emotionally start to evolve subconsciously - what that began the same, might one day diverge and grow differently.
Because Love is truly not about looking at each other, but in one collective direction. The minute the relationship loses this vision, it loses its soul to function.
Perhaps you might want to discuss with her if there is a possibility of this shared vision and how you want your relationship to move in the future. If there is no common goal(s), then perhaps, it might be beneficial for the both of you to come to a mutual agreement to null this relationship and end it amicably again.
Why delay the inevitable?
Take care.
