grandparents or nursery school,which do you choose to take care about child?

If I had children, I would take care of them by myself. Sometime, I could bring them to my parents, but it would be just a visit, not a charge. Maybe my parents have more experiences, but with the fact that they're not young and they have their own problems, they can play with but not take care of chidren. The nurses may be professional, but they have also many children to care, so they can't be sure that they save the best occupation for my children. And the most important, raising the own children is the nature, the duty, and the happiness of a parent. As long as my financial condition is good enough, I won't give up my children to follow the vain aim in life such as money, career or fame.

It really depends. If I HAVE to work, I would choose to put my child in a nursery...I wouldn't want to put that burden on my parents or my boyfriend's parents(with very young children)...when we do end up getting married and moving we'll probably be closer to his family and it would make sense for us to put them in a nursery because they both work and everything like that. But I would do so much research on nurseries and pick the best one no matter the cost...plus it'll be good for the kid to make friends.