Sleeping together on the FIRST DATE,Disasterous OR ok ?
By beautifulll
@beautifulll (85)
South Africa
September 29, 2009 6:33am CST
Ok,you've known someone for quite some time,u guys work together for the past 5 months.Your crazy about him and Eventually he asked you out. The Chemistry is during the date,the conversation is sparkiling,the buzz is there,The Kiss is on point...U want mo and he wants mo...But its your first date. Would it be wrong to sleep with him on the first date? Its not like his a complete stranger...should you wait or just go with your raging passionate heart an forfill your body desires ?
2 responses
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
29 Sep 09
to each his own....for some its acceptable and for others its not..I know htat it was never an issue for me...If I was sexually attracted to someone and it was visa versa then we were having at it LOL....and the best part was, there were no strings attached....if we saw each other again great, if we started actually dating each other great but if we never heard from each other again that was fine too..
@beautifulll (85)
• South Africa
29 Sep 09
see thats the way I see it and like it.If your BOTH attracted to each other and doing it because You BOTH want to for Your OWN needs than its fine. But people start getting hurt, whenU slept with some-one NOT to forfill YOUR needs but to TRAP him,OR get some-one to commit into something serious.U shud be Upfront tell someone the truth.But if u do it for yourself u won't regret it.Weather u guys dated the next day,or never saw each other again..it shouldnt matter- as long as it was WORTH it to you !
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
30 Sep 09
Oh I'm always one to lay my cards on the table...I think everyone should whether its a one nighter, weekend fling or a long term relationship or marriage...I've been married to my husband for 7 yrs (we've been together for 11) and I have been and always will be up front with him..and he is with me...in ANY type of relationship its just best for everyone to be straight up as far as I'm concerned.
