Will you trust your friend who betrayed you?

You just called him "friend." :-)

Thats right buddy.... a friend cannot betray... if she does then she is not a friend....I have been cheated by more than 4 friends(whom i considered as my best friend) in my lifetime.....all are betrayors... treating me as a financier and sometimes even as a slave....really bad.... I now fear not to be close with anyone....I dont believe there is something called friendship....

I have been betrayed by my bestfriend and now she is back and trying to befriend me. I felt sorry for her and no, I will no longer trust her again. I will again be a friend to her for the sake of our other friends. No more commaderie to her.

It will be saddened if a friend betrayed me. If the matter between us are so severe that we cannot fix things anymore I might not call her a "friend". Because for me a friend is someone you can trust and someone whom you can be with through think and thin. I might be civil with her but not to the point that we will still be close and deal with each other anymore. But as long as I can forgive her with the mistakes she did or with our unresolve arguments I will fix things between us. :)

Well off course i dont judge people just like that. Even the most trusted friend can betrayed you if he / she has a reason. First we must c the reason first, why they betray us. Some time a friend betray us because they know ( or think )what we gonna is not good for us. Or maybe they are really in a very bad position and there is nothing that they can do but betray us. So after i understand the reason, then i will decide if he / she still worthy of my trust.

i think it's a worse thing that happen in friendship. But still we had to see the problem clearly why he/she done these, maybe it happen because ourself. we should ask third person opinion about this kind of situation how them see this situation. If so that's is his/her problem i think the best think we can do is make a distance for a while. And after that i think i will give them a second chance to fix this friendship, somehow or someday maybe we need their help.

arunmails I think I would feel just as you do, betrayed and angry and would not want to be friends any longer. to me friendship means love and honesty and being there for each each other. so betrayal would end my friendship for sure.