Will you still say I love you?
By hwoarangpoy
@hwoarangpoy (196)
Philippines
September 29, 2009 11:49am CST
I feel so inferior today. I realize that the father of my kids is not ready for fatherhood. He is so self-centered. I should not have taken him back.
Just before the youngest was born we had a fight over his immaturity. I freaked out of learning that he has a girlfriend within his church while he left worrying about the finances. He never gives me anything but trouble and pain. And now he is blackmailing me of my hard earned money.
Just this morning he asked me if there is someone new. The romance died. I do not want to be a hyprocrite. I just want him out for good.
If you were me will you still give him a good morning kiss? or say I love you?
3 responses
@amandakringle (109)
• United States
5 Oct 09
Its time to let the guy go. its obvious that you dont love him and that he really doesnt love or respect you. It would be the best thing for you and your children to end that relationship. Remember your kids are constantly watching you, I dont know if you have a little girl or not but would you want her to be in a relationship that or if you had a little boy, is that the type of role model that you want to put in front of him? I hope everything works out for you. You and your children deserve someone that wiltreat you both with respect snd love. This guy obviously isnt it. Move on and focus on yourself and your kids. Goodluck!!!
@savypat (20216)
• United States
29 Sep 09
Would you tell him a lie? Would you give him false hope? Best to treat him as you would want to be treated under the same conditions. And get the situation resolved as soon as possible it is not good for your children.
