I need some excitment in my life!

United States
September 29, 2009 3:03pm CST
I'm sure what I need but I need something! I feel ilke I'm heading for the dumps and and in a rut! I'm also stressing over every day things! I wish I had some money so I could take a vacation somewhere by a beach or something like that!I just am not feeling happy! Wish I was!
15 responses
@abanerji (1026)
• India
4 Oct 09
you have are stressed and in search of a bigger happiness in life you are blinded towards the little things that eep happening around you. why do you have to wait for a vacation to have fun... go out for dinner on any weekend either with family or friends... forget the world and just have fun... you would experience a new vitality within yourself... try to ake others happy... try an bring a smile on someone's face... help someone out of trouble... you would feel happy.. don't wait for happiness to come to you... go and look for happiness and grab every bit of it what you can see...
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Oct 09
hi wow you have the key to happiness you go out and look 'for it, dont wait for it, great suggestions.
• China
5 Oct 09
you've got so many friends on mylot, they all want the best for you. you should feel warm.
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• United States
30 Sep 09
You have the ability to change your circumstances, they have free classes online, eg salsa classes, art classes, it depends on what your into. what about excercise, that makes me happy, in a sense my body feels good afterwards I have more energy, or what about reading? what type of things do you like to do are you affiliated with a church maybe they have some up coming events. seek and you shall find something :o) I wish you luck
• United States
2 Oct 09
I think I know what I want but I don't have the money to due so! Money makes the money go round and I don't have alot! I have bills to pay,I ned to get a new bed,and car repairs to pay for! Unless I win the Powerball on Saturday it will be a very long time before I go somehere I want to!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Oct 09
oh my blue65packer be careful what you wish for, sometimes' it is better to be in a rut than to have upsetting unsettling things go wrong, and then you wish oh my I do wish I was back in my comfortable though boring rut. I did not begin to' know how lucky I was in my rather boring but comfy existence until my world crumbled, and I was tossed out of my comfy rut into the cold unforgiving world of being homeless simply because my son lost his job, we ran out of money, we got behind in the rent, eviction, and homeless so we decided Iwould come here to this retirement center and my son would get gov. help to get into a sponsered apt. with three other out of work guys. so its not a comfy rut at all now, but much better than the cold unforgiving world of homeless ness. so appreciate what you have okay?this is not meant to be a preachy response just suggesting we are usually much better off then we think we are.so be happy if you can. I am happy for now too.
• United States
8 Oct 09
Thanks for the response! I have this before and it doesn't bother me! Happy Mylotting!
• China
5 Oct 09
i think you've got so many friends on mylot, you should feel happy. so many people care about you ,and they all want to the best for you.
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@vopols (204)
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
I guess my friend you are in a stage of boredom and because of this you are stressed out. What could possibly be the reason for this? For me it is predictability meaning to say when you wake up in the morning you already know what will happened to your day you already knew what time are you going to go home to eat and sleep. You wish you had money and able to go to a particular place to rest you somewhere in a beach that's a good idea my friend.Aside from that you can also check some of your friends and hang out. You can also try to join an organization or like a mountaineer group to let your body relax and able to climb up mountains and see the goodness of nature.It's really up to you.What is lacking for is adventure or something which can challenge you it could be in a from of a physical,mental,emotional or even spiritual challenges.
• United States
2 Oct 09
tHAT IS NOT WHAT I WANT! Also you avater is very freaky!
@vopols (204)
• Philippines
3 Oct 09
Thanks at least I've responded with your discussion even though It didn't help you. You can stand on you own because your not a kid anymore. My avatar is quite freaky yeah I know I just love the eye it's red the same as mine.
@venshida (4836)
• United States
30 Sep 09
You this feeling might catching, Lately, I have being feeling the same way. Just don't feel like myself. I am going to push myself to get out this weekend and do something fun. I think you should find something you like to do and do it, and you should feel better.
@max1950 (2306)
• United States
29 Sep 09
if you dont care where your cabin will be located take a cruise, it will keep ya busy and you'll always have something to do. now cruise lines keep certain cabins until the end and when the cruise isnt full they go cheap, real cheap. spend a week or 10 days in the carribbean. now the only problem with the cheap cruises is you have to go when they have the openings ,so i you have no problem getting off when ever you need to hit the cruises. or just get a cheap flight to bermuda and hit the pink sand beaches there but with the cruises " all " your food is paid for and ya eat when and when ever you want, now if you do go dont get back to me complaining you gained 10-15 pounds , because it happens... alot. but we'll love ya anyway
• United States
2 Oct 09
I wish I COULD AFFORD A CHEAP CRUISE! ONFORTUNELY I HAVE NO MONEY FOR THAT UNLESS I WIN THE POWERBALL THIS SAURDAY!!!!!! Thanks for the advice,anyway!
• United States
29 Sep 09
You're not the only one that wishes they had some excitement in their lives! I've felt like I've been living in a rut for several years now. I just don't intereact with very many people anymore. I don't see a lot of my friends anymore. It's just so blah. I only see my partner outside of work for the most part. We really do not hang out with anyone either. It's frustrating. I feel like there are so many other things to do but all most all of them require money or at least require having money to make a purchase of something fun to do.
• United States
2 Oct 09
I never have the money to do anything! If I do have money I end up needing the car being repaired or something else happens! It sucks big time!
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
30 Sep 09
I am very sorry to hear that. I feel like this alot fo times too. I am not sure how to get out of it either. I work seven days a week right now to make ends meet. I wish we could take a vacation to the ocean.
• United States
2 Oct 09
I work days a wek. Six of those days I work both my jobs! If I didn't have the part-time job along with my full-time job I'd be hurting! Thanks for the response!
@smart44 (510)
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
Life is full of excitement you need to be flexible enough to survive on all the struggles you will across along the way, You need to be contented, relax, and be happy of what you have in all day. Accept what you have in here and you will be happy. Always thank God for what you have everyday , being born and struggling in life is a very nice gifts for us. Always remember that if theres loneliness there are always happiness in life. Be patience enough and you will see what i mean. happy mylotting
@Wizzywig (7847)
29 Sep 09
Hmmm! I know THAT feeling!! Sometimes, the most exciting thing is going to the 24-hour supermarket on the way home from the late shift at work! Now and again, when I have a day off, I get up early, get in the car & take myself off on a mystery tour. I dont go that far but its just somewhere to be other than work or home & I dont HAVE to be anywhere by a particular time or justify anything I do. I did manage a weekend away in June but that was the first break from home I'd had since 2001. I did get to walk along a virtually deserted beach and it was wonderful to feel so free. Hope you find something fun to do
• United States
2 Oct 09
I hope I find somrething fun to do,too! Thanks for the response!
@jugsjugs (12967)
29 Sep 09
I need some excitement in my life as well as i feel everything is getting a bit of a bore now adays.I can not afford a holiday and i do not see anything much is going to change next year about a holiday either.I wish i had a bit more money as well as at least i could treat us all to something nice once in a while.
• United States
2 Oct 09
Thnaks for the respopnse! Nice to hear I'm not the only one who needa excitment in their life!
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
I think all you have to do is slow down and take a break! You have to know what you really want, meditate and pray. Maybe you should take a little focus on expanding your earnings so you could go to places you really wanna go to. Hope this helps.
• United States
2 Oct 09
I can't afford to! At least not for a very long time! Money is the problem and that makes the world go round!
• China
30 Sep 09
Yes, my life now lacks excitement and passion too. Everyday is a routine for me, get up, have breakfast, work whole day, supper, sleep.... I feel so boring, some changes is needed but I don't know how. Maybe you guys here may let me have some more ideas.