Have you ever attended Court Proceedings before?

@zandi458 (28102)
Malaysia
September 30, 2009 6:55am CST
I have never once attended a court hearing before but today I drew on personal experience from a court hearing that involved my parents long overdue suit against a bank which has swindled them of their hard earned savings. They have put their trust in a bank by keeping their money in the hope of earning interests and safe keeping. My mother was the key witness in this suit as my dad has passed away 3 years ago. All my siblings came along as early as 7 am though the hearing was only scheduled to start at 9.00 am to give moral support to our mother who has never testified in any court hearings before. My mother's lawyer came personally to fetch her as he wanted to give her final briefings. I accompanied her in the lawyer's car. We were the early birds as we arrived in the High Court before the others and we took our seat in the specially allocated seat for witnesses while waiting for the other siblings to arrive. The atmosphere is so much different from the un-behavioral world outside. The entrance is guarded by two security guards and everyone is expected to be properly attired. One by one lawyers in their official court dress start arriving carrying with them their big black bags loaded with legal documents and took their own seats in the pew. Minutes before the proceedings started the High Court Judge walk in and an announcement was made to ask everyone to stand up. As a mark of respect to him everyone bowed their heads down. There were few cases heard this morning and my mother's case was the last to be called as they were 12 witnesses produced by the defendants. My mum was called to the witness stand and was cross examined by the defense lawyers. Being 75 years old she has a bit of hard hearing but the court interpreter was at hand to translate the legal jargon that she is unfamiliar with. The hearings were conducted in English. Lawyers are cunning fox as they can twist and turn their questions just to confuse the witness but luckily my mum did not flatter under such heavy and confusing cross examinations. When she was unsure of the answer, she would reply 'refer to my sworn statements. Her answer was taken as recorded. I must give credit to her for a job well done as she did not panic and her every replies were done in a very professional and acceptable way. The final judgment will only be known in a month's time and I pray that she'll win over the case as it has been 10 years before this hearing came up.
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17 responses
• United States
1 Oct 09
I work in the courthouse and am often involved in court preceedings. I think it is important when you are to testify that you only answer direct questions. Never give more details and elaborate on the information. If they need more info from you they will ask. It can be intimidating at times but it is a lot of fun if you let go of your fears. Good luck on the upcoming decision!
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
11 Nov 09
LOL...my mum though old and a bit deaf has delivered her testimony perfectly as she has been coached by her lawyers. Even the judge seemed to be patient with her when she sometimes need an interpreter to make her understand the questions asked. Up to now we have not heard any news from her lawyers on the decision.
• United States
30 Dec 09
Thank you for the best response. I hope everything worked out well for you all...
@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
1 Oct 09
I have attended several court proceedings. It sounds like your mom's court case went well. I hope the final judgment is in her favor. 10 years is a long time to wait for things to be settled.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
11 Nov 09
I don't understand why it took so long to hear this case. Unfortunately, my dad did not live to hear the outcome of the case as he passed away before the court hearing. We are still waiting for the final judgment.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
9 Nov 09
Yep, I did attend Court Proceedings before. But like you, I am only there to witness the proceedings. Not involved personally. The atmosphere in the Court room is sombre. It has been a month. How did the proceedings go? Was the verdict in favor of your mum?
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Dec 09
No, no judgment yet but hopefully it will be known early next year.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
30 Sep 09
HOW proud u must be of your mom, i'm proud of her to. I swee where her daughter gets her intelligence & caring. Going to court is nerve wracking no matter what the reason, I hope the court rules in her favor.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 09
Thanks for the bragging. LOL my mom was initially nervous but our moral support gave her the confidence and we hope too that the judgment is in her favor. At least the stolen money is returned to the rightful owner plus accumulated interests.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
30 Sep 09
Thank heavens for that & bless you & your siblings for supporting her. I know u are all glad it's settled.
• India
23 Oct 09
Hello my friend zandi458 Ji, I very well remmeber, my hubby used to tell me about this case. i thought, it must have been closed. But these courts and Lawers , if they solve all in one go then how thier Kitchen would smoke. So they try and linger. I also am sure, why your mother was not bitting her teeth and always replying smartly to the occasion with lot of dignity to the court as well as for hewrself, it is beacuse She isvery much true to her consious. I would Pray to Almighty that dicission will come in her favour, so taht your father woould be happy and shower blessings from top. May god bless You and have a great time.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Dec 09
Until now we have not receive the final judgment and wouldn't know the outcome of the case as yet.
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• India
30 Dec 09
Hello my friend zandi458 Ji, I think, justice delayed is like justice denied. I think, probably, it has taken more than one year now. You have system like, lower courts/session courts/High court and tehn finally supreme court. How judgement is pronounced. Is tehre any appeal taht you have not yet been provided with Final judgement. Wishing that New year brings very special for your family. Wishing you a very happy Chrismas and New Year-2010. May God bless You and have a great time.
@forptc (287)
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
I was able to attend one, just this May and it was my (then) girlfriend's first appearance in court since passing the bar. It wasn't a trial but only for motions, but just as funny and exciting. I never really thought it to be far different from what we see in TV and movies but it definitely was. And there was this squabble between a very old lawyer who was in practice for very long and a young and ingenious one. The old lawyer couldn't keep his cool and it was funny hearing him rant. There was also an arraignment where the arraigned did not understand what the sheriff was saying so it had to be translated. It was cool, but for most of the time, I got bored. Probably a trial would be a lot more exciting.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 09
Yes, I agree with you. After witnessing how the lawyers work in the court of law, I really think this profession is challenging. Bright lawyers can even make a guilty person acquitted. That is their job to prove and to save guilty people. They are paid for jobs getting people off the hook and it is their sweetest victory if they can prove beyond reasonable doubts that a convicted person discharged.
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@forptc (287)
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
It is truly is challenging, most times even at the cost of the lawyer's personal life. It adds up to a lot of stress in such a way that these lawyers do not just get involved with their clients legally but they also have to personally. If they don't get their clients to tell them the truth or at least be able to relate with them or even get their clients to trust them, they wouldn't be successful in defending their client. When handling the innocents, it bears on them a lot more because they really have to be careful because if they do fail, it would be a lot worse than killing a person with your own hands. With them defending the guilty, it actually depends on the lawyer's practice and if the lawyer is religiously following legal ethics. That, in itself, is a separate subject offered in law schools and is mostly taken for granted. I'm just not sure if it's part of a state's law, at least not in our country I think. And it also depends on the oath taken by the lawyer before getting into service and if they do follow it or not. Part of the lawyer's oath here in the Philippines states that "I will delay no man for money or malice, and will conduct myself as a lawyer according to the best of my knowledge and discretion, with all good fidelity as well to the courts as to my clients". Though most go for the money than for their duty that's why the do whatever it takes to win even if they already know their client is guilty. I know a few who decline regardless of the tendered amount, knowing well enough that whatever price will never pay the blood, sweat and tears they've shed just to reach the practice of their profession and wouldn't trade mere money for honor and dignity. The rest give lawyers a bad name.
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
30 Sep 09
I have, and it is very nerve racking. I am glad it is over and pray that she does win. I cannot believe it took that long.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 09
Yes, a lot of tension felt when one is not used to hearing arguments between the lawyers of the plaintiffs and defendants.
• Canada
1 Oct 09
I have before; a couple of times for my husband because of a traffic related problem, and another time with my step-daughter because of an idiot that she was dating, and we got married in the court house. In 2007 and 2008 I was starting to think that I didn't know where I spent more time; in a Sedona courtroom, or in the Phoenix airport. LOL
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
11 Nov 09
It was my first time attending a court case and I traveled 200 miles just to attend the proceedings. I must say it was a well worth experience for me and saw for myself the court 'drama'. A brilliant lawyer can turn a murderer into an innocent person and save him from capital punishment.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
1 Oct 09
Hi Zandi! Your description about Court proceedings at your place, sounds interesting and makes an interesting reading. I have not face any personal Court case, like you have mentioned. However, I have attended some Court hearings in connection with some official cases and there also all kind of decourm and rules were followed in the Court.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Dec 09
In my life that was the only time that I ever experience a highly tensed situation where all the faces of the lawyers looked so serious especially the judge who is sitting in an uplifted platform listening attentively to verdicts presented by all the lawyers.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
1 Oct 09
I have never been to court for anything. The only thing I did through the courts was my divorce about twenty years ago and I was not required to attend because we did not have any children so I didn’t go. It does sound like your mother handled her experience very well; it must feel nerve wracking to be cross examined by a cunning lawyer, good on her for getting through it so well, I hope the judgement will be in her favour.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Dec 09
I am also hopeful that it will be a favorable judgement.
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@sandymay16 (1617)
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
Yes once only during college when we were required to attend a court hearing for a subject in political science. So I went to court and randomly selected a sala which is open to the public. The first sala I came upon was closed since it was a very sensitive hearing and not open to spectators. Then I came upon a room already filled with people and policemen. The judge came and somebody said "all rise". The language spoken was English but there was an interpreter since the witnesses and the defendants were speaking in the local dialect. So it took several hours for the hearing to adjourn. I just thought why speak in English in bad grammar and bad everything when they could just say it in the dialect? Well, the law has stated that English would be the medium and it has not changed until now. I just felt sorry for the court interpreter and the stenographer since some interpretations were really not what it means. But the most pitiful were the defendants and witnesses alike.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 09
English is the medium of communication in many courts. Maybe it is easier to present their words in this language as all legal terms originated from this language. But I can hear the public prosecutors appointed by the government struggling in their presentations.
@asweetie (1187)
• India
30 Sep 09
hi zandi, I have just seen one court procedings in my life and i must say it is nothing like we see in the movies and is quite boring. I have a doctor friend who had gone there to the court as an expert witness in a case where two person had a fight and one was injured badly and he was the one who had done his MLR ( medico legal report) and i was surprised when Judge told him to go to the typist in the back room and record his statements there and the two advocates ( one for denfense and other for the effected party) were asking questions and there was no site of the Judge there and everything he was saying even as answer to questions of advocates were typed on the paper and in end he signed the paper and that was it. But it was very boring thing.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 09
I agree with you that it was boring listening to the exchanges of words and with all the unfamiliar legal words which is difficult to comprehend for the ordinary jo. Certainly one need an intelligent mind to be a good lawyer.
@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
30 Sep 09
Now we know how it is dificult to win them,,,Best wishes,, we get wiser day by day
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 09
Yes, this is one good experience I have gained today. It needs good lawyers to win any legal suit.
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
yes, i have attended hearings in the past either there to be a spectator and in other cases where i was the complainant. that case reached settlement as the respondent chose to pay me for the amount that i entrusted her. i just attended another hearing the other day. i am also the complainant of this case and it is about to reach dismissal if we come into agreement. it is a different setting, a very formal one. u need to be quiet when inside the courtroom and not make any unnecessary noise and voices should be restrained when u want to talk with other people there. other judges are so strict that they do not allow people to eat chewing gums while in the courtroom. once, this strict judge admonished one guy who was chewing gum and had the gum swallowed. u should need to know the rules before going inside the courtroom.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 09
I was quite ignorant on the rules of entering the court house. But due to the tense atmosphere inside we tend to behave appropriately and whisper when we want to speak something. The judge seemed to be flexible as I have seen him smiling once in a while unlike some judges who are strict.
• Canada
1 Oct 09
I have before; a couple of times for my husband because of a traffic related problem, and another time with my step-daughter because of an idiot that she was dating, and we got married in the court house. In 2007 and 2008 I was starting to think that I didn't know where I spent more time; in a Sedona courtroom, or in the Phoenix airport. LOL
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
30 Sep 09
WOW 10 years! and good for her ya know older people or more inclined to be very unstressed when it come to this sort of thing. also she had a good lawyer that had promted her wha tto say and when to say it. Sure hope she wins!
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
1 Oct 09
that would be good BUT it was you mom and dads savings
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 09
Yes there are many court cases here and this case has been postponed many times. Hopefully my mom's lawyer can be successful so we the siblings can at least have a little share of the money to survive in these hard times.
@quinnkl (1667)
• United States
3 Oct 09
I am so proud of your mom. So sad to have to go through that and glad she did and was able to stick it out. So many of the money makers in the country get away with illegal things simply because they have the money and the lawyers and the time to wear down and out wait those of us who are just hard working people. I am so glad she handled it great and got through it! Good Luck to her!
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Dec 09
Exactly, if we have money we can hire the best lawyers to represent us in any court case.