Marriage
By rizeaf
@rizeaf (37)
Malaysia
November 14, 2006 2:39am CST
As we already know, marriage is a wonderful things that is always celebrate with happening and joyful.Marriage is all about love, sacrifice and the most important things is the gift from God. Statistic, shown that many divorced couples actually didn't love each other when they were married. Only lucky peoples can get married with someone they love. That means, not all peoples can get married with someone they love and it is all from God. It is a major factor of marriage. Love teach us to appreaciate somebody's feeling, always be there when we were dissapointed, and encourage us to think positively. Firstly, love tech us to appreaciate somebody's feeling.
Not all peoples like us and not all peoples dislikes us as well. Maybe, they don't like us because of several reasons such as our behaviour, appearance and relationship with them. But at the same time, we don't have to be worry because they are still many peoples outhere need us and maybe want us to be either their boyfriend or girlfriend. When we accept him/ her to be our special friend, it shows that we appreaciate his/her feeling then this will lead to marriage. But as what i had already mention, only lucky peoples can get married with someone they love.
Secondly, when we have special friend, his/her will always be there when we were upset in everything we do or afraid about something. For example, as a girl i certainly afraid to walk alone at the night especially when the place is too dark and seldom used by the public. But i didn't let the situation goes on. What i do is, i tell this problem to my special boyfriend then he always ready to take care of me.
Lastly, all this may lead us to think positively. All of the fact above are among the process of marriage.As a conclusion, there is no marriage without love, sacrifice and understanding. Peoples that married with someone that they didn't even love usually divorced.
2 responses
@soulist (2985)
• United States
18 Nov 06
Now-a-days I don't think some people think completely before they get married. They just leap before they think and really look at the relationship then all the problems raise and boom divorce.
Like you said marriage is a gift from God and should be treated as such. It's to express love for each other AND love for God.