my best friend???

Well I guess as our priorities change, so would our choices. I think you could put it to her, though you love her, her friends and her way of doing things is not something you would approve of. Tell her of your needs and what you want to achieve, hope that at the end of the road it would be something you would be able to share with her. Tell her you do not expect her to help along, however does not want her to be a stumbling block for you to realise your dreams. Just my thoughts. I do hope everything turns out well.

hello elsmarie, First, you got a gay friend who creates lies about him and your bf and now this girl? well, you seemed to be a really nice person elsemarie.i think it's better that you be honest of what you don't like about her, and asked her to change a bit. if not then it's your choice whether you want to continue the friendship. i just hope you didn't reveal any secrets to this friend of yours, never reveal most specially if you think they're unstable.

hello, eLsMarie, i can understand your feeling, you treat your friend just like you are her elder sister, and she seems take you as her sister happily. May you you should sit snd discuss about this question peacefully, since friends should be fair, what she does was not fair to you. And I am not sure whehter she is your real friend or not, friends is someone you share feeling and opinions, you hold different opinions but remain friends, friends respect each other and knows each other's need. But she seems doesn't know that her behavior annoyed you, and take away what she think she should. Remember, she is your friend, now your baby, not your younger sister, not a child anymore, you don't have to tolarant all that.

Hi Marie... have a happy day...I am really sorry for that.... I had a very good friend once... but not anymore...We became close when we were doing our tenth standard... she is always friendly, very polite and more soft....she belongs to a very orthodox family.... Now its been nearly six years since our friendship bloosomed....This year she is not in contact with me i don't know the true reason yet... but she simply gave a blank reason she is busy with her love.... those words pierced me like anything... I simply realised tha there is nothing called friendship in this world.... True but hard to take up.......so i never contact her myself... even if she calls i never respond

Hello!I can understand your feeling! But I think best friend must understand each.Becomes frends is valued is opening heart. So long as your sinserity to leads her,he certainly wil understand you .Knows Bao shuya and guan zhong story? This is the very good example .Runs into a good friend not to be easy,treasures well!

try to listen to you parents friends come and go

I think with time many changes are there in life. Also the priorities change a lot.May be there are many events that has molded your thought like this.If your heart say, she is no longer a best friend, be it so.

I understand what you mean. If you truly had enough of her then you can still be friends but not that close. But only if you truly make up your mind. I would either tell her gently about what you want and expect of a friend and tell her about the situation at hand. Or I would slowly cut down on the time I spend with her. Like just gently dress back. I think the second would be much easier and it would be gradual. Just don't be too harsh and try to end it quickly. You guys could still be friends with the second option. But if you do the first then who knows how she'll react to it. Good luck.

hello there dear... wow you have a tough decision to make...hmmm... i think talking to her heart to heart would help you say whatever is in your mind... like as time goes by, seasons change same as people... let me share to you a similar experience. i have childhood friend that became my bestfriend until high school. but they move to other place.... then i found a new friend in college we have some things in common. we are like north and south pole but like as magnet we are attach to each other.so she became my new bestfriend. then out of the blue my former bestfriend saw me in school we talk and she said im still her bestfiend but i told her i have found a new bestfriend after she left. she was hurt but i said that though im not her bestfriend anymore, i would still be her friend no matter what happen.. oh... im being too dramatic.. well i hope you can talk to your friend and clear things out... God bless....

hi elsmarie...you are in a difficult stuation right now. I think that you have to talk to her as soon as possible. You do not own your best friends life so she can do whatever she wants. She's your best friend, no matter what she is you have to accept her. I felt that your best friend is not a problem, i think you are the one who creates these problems. First of all, she doesn't need to please your parents and if she have vices and don't have priorities in life maybe it was her choice for as long as you are not being influenced to do this bad things then it's ok. At the end of the day you are the one who will make the decision if you wanna be like her. A friend is a friend no matter what she is...it's just my opinion.

Hi eLsMarie,I believe that you are a nice and good person.I know that you understand your friend,but you must tell her and explain the reason why you give up your friendship.Too much of protecting her to your parents.shes bad influence for you.Listen to your parents,they knows best for you.Good Luck!

Hey elsmarie It happened with me too. Who I thought to be my best friend for life, she didn't even care about me. She every time used to be with her friends, but I took everything easy and still took her as my best friend because she was the only one whom with I could enjoy when I am feeling low. But one day, even after seeing that I came, she didn't even come to me and said me hi and was busy with her friends. Later on, when we were going back to home, I asked her that why is she doing like this, did I do something wrong, so she said me that she never took me as a best friend. I was really shocked. I helped her each and every time for everything. And she even doesn't remember that. So, I just went away and thought very hardly, that what can I do now, should I leave her, but if I leave her, I will become alone and won't have anyone with me. But still the next day itself, I said her that now I am breaking our friendship and will never see each other as friends, maybe only as classmates. So, she said ok. And I didn't care. If the person you take as your best friend and he/she only doesn't care about you, then why should you be scared to go and say her that you don't want this friendship to continue. Over all, you helped her in everything and she didn't help you even once, so could she be your best friend. Not at all. So, better you go and inform her that you want to break it right now otherwise until she realize, she would have taken much more help from you and maybe even put you in trouble. I hope you like my opinion. Have a nice day!:)

hello elsmarie, actually I don,t know the real situation between you and ma. You two have been best friends since high school right? Then up to now, your relationship has lasted several years. But for a long time, I were standing her because the reason of her right? Then how long? Month? or Years? If you star to stand her since the beigininig, then my advice is, give up the relationship. But I would like to believe that these months recently, you start to spend your patience on her. So, I beliver that before, ma really bring happiness for your two and you can feel the satisfaction of the relationship,right. Maybe something happern recentely to lead to such a state. If the situation is like this, My advice is that sit down and have a good talk with her. Tell her what you are so impatient about her and why. Friend should be talking with each other sincerely like that. If she cherish your ship, she will change for you. If she still pesit her in her old ways, then, I will say she is really not worth your sacrifice. The importan thing is talking with her, let her know what is the problem. Then eventhough you decide to give up the relationship, she can konw the reason. If you don,t talk with her first,and give up. She will think your behavior is without rhyme or reason. People will say, it is your fault

If she is really concern about you also. she must learn to adjust things that might affect you. its a process of give and take.