Was it wrong on my part to be angry?
By shreed_14
@shreed_14 (460)
India
October 1, 2009 4:17am CST
Recently I had a fight with one of my classmates and was very rude to him.Right after this incident another classmate of mine whom I always considered to be a good friend accuses me of acting stupid unnecessarily.She was like "don't ever hurt anyone."I was badly by this behavior of hers.
I am usually a very polite person and am never rude to anyone until and unless I am badly insulted or hurt.I am actually friends with almost everyone in my class.
This particular guy I had a fight with had been behaving bad with me for quite sometime now(4-5 months). There have been times he has left me weeping even.And on those occasions my friend,she used to be like "Just ignore him."She even used to say she gets angry with the guy when I cry because of him.
And finally when I couldn't control myself anymore and bursted out on the guy she blamed me.
I was just wondering as in was it wrong on my part to be angry?If someone keeps on hurting and insulting you,are you supposed to keep quiet and not say anything back?Please suggest.
1 response
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
1 Oct 09
one you allow him to control your emotions. never let any jerk control your emotions. then you just lower yourself to his level. you made yourself look just as bad as he look to people.
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@shreed_14 (460)
• India
1 Oct 09
Is that so??
I didn't think it that way.I just got very angry that time an hence couldn't control myself.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
1 Oct 09
i have an anger issues, having bipolar make it hard. but learning not to allow your anger get the best of you, learning to act not reacting is the key.
but not lower yourself to thier level is also apart of the key.
good luck
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