In love with two people at the same time?

I know someone before who fell in love with two guys at the same time. As a friend she confessed to me and asked for my advice. I told her to make up her mind and she needs to choose. I just told her that there must be one of them she love the more. Coz' I believe that you can't love two persons all at the same.

for me, no.it cant be,you can be infatuated to two people but can never love them both at the same time.for love is a commitment.if you are commited then you are focused just to your partner.for one reason i can see on those people who claims that they are inlove with 2 people at the same time are just wandering to look for someone to compensate what is missing on their partner.if you are truly inlove you will feel the total contentment with him/her that you wont find time to fall to other person.

I do think it's possible.....it's never happened to me either.....I have enough trouble being in a relationship with one person at a time to be fiddling around with two at once!

hmmmm...maybe yes...but definitely, your love for the other is more than the other... i think we can't love two people on the same level...at the same time. yes we can say that we are in love with them...but sometimes we just mistaken the feelings for love...when i fact its not really love...huh!

i am, theres something in another guy that i cant see with the other and vice versa. and if i can only bring them together into one. but i know that i only need to choose one. but im scared that what if i choose the wrong one.

but thats not true love..u cant love 2 person at the same time....

I think it's possible, but all involved have to be OK with it. It almost happened to me once, but then one of the guys and I decided that a committed relationship would be better for us, and i don't think the other guy was really looking for a relationship. Guy #1 and I are now married, and guy #2 is a best friend to both of us.

With the heart being such a roomy place, sarah, I have no doubt that it is possible to love more than one person at a time. Of course that is a position that I would not like to find myself in, however. You also have to remember that there are degrees of love. I believe that you would love one person more than the other. Given that fact you would be forced to decide which person you loved most.

sarahruthbeth22, Like the lyrics of the song "Torn Between Two Lovers" where it goes like this: "Torn between two lovers, feelin' like a fool....Lovin' both of you is breaking all the rules" And, just how true it is about being a fool and breaking all the rules. This world is just as fair as it can get but sometimes we just need to accept the imperfections that comes with it. That will include our other half, where they are being who they are and imperfect. So, when we have our differences, that does not mean that we let it remain unresolved and start looking for solutions by running into another person's arms to fill the void. Not that you cannot, but it is just karmic and consequential at the end of the day where you will have to live out your decisions which can be very costly. For what did the old familiar saying that goes like: "A bird in hand than two in the bush" taught us about being foolish and the dire consequences that comes with it? We'll just loose everything in the end. So, bear with it, accept reality and work out your differences with whom you have chosen to commit and love. We are all imperfect and we have our own mistakes. “Love isn't finding a perfect person. It's seeing an imperfect person perfectly.” - Sam Keen.

[i]Well i think it is just like an infactuation then, it cant be love or say true love because i feel true love is just one, love can happen many times randomly or together but if you talking of true love then its just one Two people at same time is ok but then its purely infactuation for me and that too both sides but not love i suppose.[/i]