just can't let it go.......
By pserops
@pserops (5)
South Africa
October 1, 2009 11:39am CST
this person dumped me for another person and tells me to be friends with,i can't say i agreed cause sometyms i fill i'l be an idiot doin so,and yet i can't just get her off my mind,or is because i work with her under the same roof.........sometimes i tell myself i just don't want to think about her but she keeps clicking to my mind.........how do i get through this?????
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@olepmis (840)
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
keep yourself busy so that you will not think about her. If you are working, take advantage of overtime work. Go with your friends who are indulged for a good cause. Help others who are in need and lastly, do not let yourself alone except when you are about to sleep. Think of anything you will do when you are at home. Be very, very busy and soon you will forget her.
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
pserops,
Just as no one can force another to love, it is just the same with other matters of the heart.
Whatever is the past is history and it is your choice or decision to decide if the both of you could continue as casual friends. It is sole yours to decide to be in or out, so stop feeling like a defeatist and go about aimlessly with your life.
As I have said earlier, no one can force a relationship out and you just cannot force yourself to hold on to a non existent relationship. Life is simply too short for us to waste it just like that, go towards the light at the other end of the tunnel. You deserve better.
“When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.” - Alexander Graham Bell
