Do you prefer to make friends with men or women?

Philippines
October 1, 2009 7:36pm CST
Although I'm a lady, I usually prefer males as my friend because they are not fond of telling your story to other people.. How about you? why?
8 responses
• Indonesia
3 Oct 09
Actually i don't care about my friend's gender. I just looking for easy coming and fun friends. But lot of my friends are male rather than female, probably because i'm a man and i too shy to find female friend LOL.
• Indonesia
3 Oct 09
Ha ha ha, i think you are the same with me. Thought i dont really care what gender my friend is, but i think i more easily befriend with boys then with girls. Maybe because i shy at talking to them too. But once i get to know girl and befriend with them, i can be myself and become a very nice friend.
• Indonesia
6 Oct 09
Hahaha Yeah... i also when already know a female friend i be a geed friend too
• India
2 Oct 09
This discussion is new for me. I have not think about so this discussion compeled me to think over it.So i have to think over it. In my case i like male friend as well as girl friend. As per someone sayings person have some emotions of males and some emotions of females. To satisfy both emotions i love to keep male fried as well as female friend. Female is always in my life support mentally, so i can share my soft emotions with them which requires mental support. Other hard support like..to take decision about something, males are best. So both are necessary and important in my life. Have a nice day!! Cheers Ranvir
• Indonesia
4 Oct 09
OO So it is like that. It is kinda cool to divide a friend function like that. But, for me, some time i share my soft side with my male friend too, and some time i also ask a female friend of mine to help deciding some of hard decision in my life. It all depend on how knowledgeable they are in the thing i had ask them instead of what gender they are. But, thats it for me. Thanks
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
2 Oct 09
I gotta agree with you here! My best friend is a male,My hubby and I, also know what the neighbors must think.But I have a few female friends also. But trust males much more as you said they are not gossip seekers or makers, such as caddy chatty women.
@mesuaky (397)
• Singapore
2 Oct 09
when i was in my high school to college days i had guy friend cause its cool, i was a bit boyish that time so i like to hang around with them cause they just don't really care on how i look and they certainly have no issues with my reaction as i react the same way like them, bos are more fun to be with as they do anything with out thinking of their poise they are all free spirited and thats how i love my younger life to be and the benifit of this i learn to be stronger than most women more indipendent in life. But now i am working i have became friends with lots of girls and they are also very fun to be around well they share to me tips on make-up and girly stuff, things i can't discussed with my guy buddies. and i learn how to be a lady like with them. But in my opinion the most fun to be around with are my gay friends, they are simply the best they are the exact balance of a guys strength and the soft side of a lady, and they never fail to make every moment of our time a happy one, you will surely forget about all your troubles when you hang out with them. i love to be with them. i'll say be friend to all since friendship is something free in life, there is no need to choose cause they are advantages in each friend you have that contribute a lot to your life. be friendly!!!
• Indonesia
3 Oct 09
Well i dont really care what my friend gender is. I only care about how fun they can be, how good they are at listening to me, and i how helpfull their are when i am in need. And i also care about how trusty their are to me, and how they want to share. It doenst matter if that person is male or female.
@Jhaszy (234)
• Philippines
2 Oct 09
Yes i agree.I too also like having male friends than ladies ,especially when i was still in college most of my friends were boys,and i dont have a problem with them when it comes to secrets,they dont tell,and they dont usually like to argue with girls.your secrets safe with male bestfrend...
• Indonesia
2 Oct 09
I prefer both as my friend. Sometimes I need girl as my friend, because girls can make happy and make me relax. The girls make me become the man . Sometime, I need men as my friend, because I need person to discuss business. Because man always use logic for discussion, but women always use the heart for discussion.
@Swadey (220)
• Canada
2 Oct 09
i prefer to be friends with men rather then woman because woman are never your friends, the minute you turn around they are taking behind your back and saying nastly things all woman do is gossip and i cant stand it. my best firends are guys rather then girls becuse they dont gossip and they really are your friends and are honest, also there always there when i need them there the best friends in the world. Happy Mylotting!