Does anyone think a good "physical releationship" keep people together?
By Jigilmore
@Jigilmore (106)
United States
October 2, 2009 9:48am CST
Hello,
Does anyone think that a great "physical relationship" may keep a relationship together that may not otherwise "work out" going?
I've asked some guys I know, and they've said yes...what do you think?
3 responses
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
3 Oct 09
Hello my friend
I think it played a big part in the relationship per say, but you need other things to maintain the relationship like trust, respect, love, without trust you have no relationship, respecting your partners opinions as well as their actions helps to bulid a better relationship and love well its always nice to love and be loved all these thing makes for a great friendship/relationship without all the above all you have is the physical and all though great at the time eventually you will begin to resent your partner which will end things
Although he can physically make your toes curl, we also need to be mentally stimulated I know I do, and without that I can get really bored.
Thanks my friend.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
3 Oct 09
Hello my friend
AWWWW, thank you so much for this I told you I went through some of your discussions and I will be there soon, I fell asleep lol but you have a great idea so far so good my friend, you will see me around really often,keep up the good work.
Thank you.
@Jigilmore (106)
• United States
3 Oct 09
Hi Kitty,
I agree, people sometimes tend to give the "physical" part of the relationship too much attention, and pay way less attention to the intellectual portion of the relationship... which should be just as important.
I'm with you I want somebody that talks to me also.
@Jigilmore (106)
• United States
3 Oct 09
Hi Freebird,
but would you stay with someone for that reason, even if the relationship really wasn't that great otherwise?
@missliss08 (766)
• United States
2 Oct 09
It can, but I think a relationship held together by physical reasons, is doomed to fail eventually. You have to have trust, and understanding, mutual goals etc, for a relationship to be true, and lasting.
@Jigilmore (106)
• United States
3 Oct 09
you're right, trust and having someone that talks and listens to you is important...If you really have nothing in common the "physical" will probably eventually wear off.