Your Bf's freind LOVE HIM
By woaini_87
@woaini_87 (21)
Malaysia
October 2, 2009 12:45pm CST
What do you do when you found out you bf's friend loves him and she sayd that she does not want to be friends with him anymore?
And what will your reaction be if he feel's guilty for rejecting her but thinks about still being friend with her??
My concern here is about the guilty part anf how will you react as a gf when you find out about it?
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2 responses
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
3 Oct 09
I would like to share a true story. Someone I knew
got married. But on the wedding day, she realised
that her husband's friend loves him too. But she felt
relieve coz they already married. However, no one knows
the future. This girl has never give up, along the line...
one and a half year, she won this man heart and marry him.
This is girl is divorced now and felt so sad. The worst part
was the son have to face a broken family that affect his studies.
My advise will be : Do not trust this friend of his.
Becareful and be watchful. Pray if you really loves this man.
Find out his feelings towards this girl...
Youf bf should not feel guilty as he can only choose one.
It is better to let this girl go and find her Mr. Right that meant
for her. It is good for everyone in this situation. After she married,
if it is God's will, you all can becaome family friends in future.
Right now, I would say...
'couple who are in love have the right to be selfish'
everything can share but not lovers' love 
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@woaini_87 (21)
• Malaysia
4 Oct 09
hey irene, I am currently being very selfish but when i knew what happened, i felt sorry for her as she was really sad and cried when she told my bf she LOVES him.
And now she says that she does not want to be his friend and he feel kinda gulity about it because she was a close friend to him and now he lose a friend because she said it.
I salute her for being honest with her feelings. but now that she made my bf guilty, im angry and kinda upset with it..
Now i am being kinda selfish as she is just still trying her luck.
She just made me sad.. as i am a person who thinks for others b4 i think for myself.
arrgh...
@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
3 Oct 09
I will be very angry and jealous if I find out that my bf's (gf)
friend loves him (her). I will want to make sure that my boyfriend
got nothing to do with her anymore unless I am very confident that
my boyfriend really loves me 100% and treated her purely as friend
only. I don't think my boyfriend (gf) should feel guilty to reject
her (him). This is because love cannot be 'force'..
All the best and take care!
@woaini_87 (21)
• Malaysia
4 Oct 09
Hey james.
I told my bf the same that love cannot be forced and he told the girl that he only loves me and will never leave me for her. My whole thig here is she made my bf fell guilty by saying she thinks that she might fail this sem, and she don't want to be his friend anymore.
if she only said she loves my bf and my bf rejected her and she did not made him feel guilty, then things will be fine. but she made things bad..
I am not sad neither hurt as to my bf love me very much and i know he will not leave me for another girl.
