If you need badly talking with somebody, who will be this person and why?

I know what you are saying....I feel that alot. And no I really don't have someone I can feel completly open with...My husband is a very Literal person and It is imposble to talk to him. I keep a lot inside and find myself talking to the dog...At least she will sit there and leason to everything I say even though she has no clue to what I am saying....And that lets me work out thinks on my own. Sometimes it helps......Sometimes it doesn't

Whenever I have something to talk or even discuss it seriously, it will be my very best friend who lives far away from me. She is very reliable, and keeps my secret and never spread it away until the end of the world. Everytime I talk to her, she always suggests me one good way and how to solve my thing. And it's the other way around, we respect our privacy, and never talk something about it. We're just transparent to each other.

If I need to talk to someone it is generally my best friend that I turn to, but if she is busy then I will talk to a few of my friends and family. I really don't have a boyfriend right now so that is someone I can't turn to.

I have 2. One is my girl-friend. I can & do tell her everything. And there's one guy friend @ work I can talk to. We hang out once in a while just to blow some steam off.

For me it's my mom. She's calm, understanding and extremely level headed. No matter what the problem is I can talk to her about it and she will give me good, solid advice but she never preaches at me or tells me what to do. When I have a problem with my in laws I always turn to her when I need to vent.

It's rarely to have person like that. I am that kind of person, I don't judge, don't react much, nothing really surprised for me when I hear from someone. But, when I need someone like that to listen to my problem urgently, it's hard to find one. But still one of my friend ( in my office ) is closed to that criteria, I think I would ask her ( she is a female ) to share my " secret ", she can keep the thing in the box very safely, and she won't judge by any reason. Patiently listening to my whole story makes me feeling secure. Hope you have at least one too.

My husband and I talk a lot, and we have a lot of friends of both genders, varying ages, and varying ethnicities, that we can talk to. There is always someone around to talk to if not in person, on line.

ya its my cousin sister.she has amazing listening abilities and the best part she is completely non-judgemental no matter whatever i say to her. she would later discuss if i needed guidance.she is completely my support system when i need to vent

I would speak to a friend who i hardly see as i know i can trust her as she never judges anyone at anytime for any reason.Also it is one of my friends that do not see my other friends.I think that a good friend is one you can trust as well as who can listen.

That person would be my long-time boyfriend. When I talk to him I feel free. I don't feel awkward talking to him about my insecurities and fears, and I don't feel stupid when I ask him a stupid question. He always listens when I have a problem.

i can answer straight, it's tigeruncle. he's one guy who has advised very well and i find the things he says are always of value. it is just sad that he is no longer in my lot. ann

I will go for my boyfriend. He always listens over my concerns, opinions and thoughts. He don't judge me. He just listen until I got nothing to say. When I'm done, that's the time he'll tell his side about the issue. He will suggest the best thing I should do. I love him for being like that. Just lately, I have a problem again. So, I texted him and shared him the story. He understand my situation and supported me. He is always there to cheer me up and he always tell me there's hope. He boost my morale and always tells me that through prayer, everything is possible.

Hi Ice.. I also have many friends who are always available to give me company in times of difficulty. However, there are few persons whom I always share my problems, most specially the serious one. I have a bestfriend whom I knew since we were youngsters who knows me inside and out. He is always the one who give me advices particularly problems of the heart. I also lookup to one of my high school teachers who always give that motherly advices to her young sons. I am very much fortunate to have many people who stand by my side. We have different people whom we acknowledge as our advisers which include our parents, siblings, loved ones, and relatives. It is up to ourselves whom we can comfortably share our feelings. Happy lotting...

It has to be a good friend of mine. She will listen to me when i tell her about my problems, and she gives me her support too. Wonderful friend of mine.

I know it sounds crazy, but that "person" was my dog. He passed away a little over a year ago, but he was my best friend. He was the one thing in my life that was always there for me. He never judged me. He never yelled at me. He never said that he hated me. He would just sit there beside me or lay across my lap on his back and look at me when something was wrong. Since he has been gone, I haven't had anyone like that. I used to be the person that would laugh when people said that their pets were their best friends. But now I understand.

[i]Hello ice well if there should be one such person then i think it will be my best friend on internet.We havent met each other but we are friends since 4 years and he is such a person who will listen to every sh-it of mine, he never says he is bugged or something by me.Infact after all he will say sorry to me if he had hurt me, and then i get so irritated that i forget where is my anger.I dont know wheather we will meet or know, he kind of has feelings for me too.But dont know whats in our stores.I hope he is always happy and gets the best in his life, love him[/i]

hello icesmile, i find that you have many good discussion! when I need somebody to talk, I would find someone that I know but never meet, I mean net pal. I have some net pals, we often communicate together, and we learn from each other's experience, sometimes they would give me very good advise! I am gratitude to them. I often happened to me, since I am alone in a city, no relatives, and I something happen to me, I don't call to my parents, because they would worry about my situation, but they are not able to provide me advise to tackle all these. A net pal of my age can, though we never meet.