What qualities do you find attractive in other people?
By Sinned
@Sinned (31)
United States
October 3, 2009 12:25pm CST
So I was thinking about this for a while. What qualities does everyone find to be attractive? For instance, I am a heterosexual male, about 6'0" and 185lbs. I prefer girls between 5'4"-5'7" 110-130lbs, but that is very specific. I'm talking more generally really. Such as blue eyes, brown hair, white skin, and most of all which personality traits! I like someone I can talk to and not uphold a conversation with and so that it doesn't die in five minutes.
How about everyone else?
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@kykidd (6812)
• United States
3 Oct 09
I prefer a guy who is taller than me, I'm about 5'6". A few inches taller is better, around 5'10" at least. I also like guys who have blonde hair and blue eyes. As far as looks goes, that what I prefer.
When it comes to personalities, I like someone who has a bit of an intimidator type of personality. Not really towards other people and not someone who brags a lot, just someone who is good at everything that they do. When I say Intimidator, I mean kind of like Dale Earnhardt. He was a nice guy, but you didn't want to get in his way.
I also like someone who enjoys sports. I don't think I could ever date a guy who didn't at least like one or two sports. Otherwise I wouldn't have someone which could watch the game with me and sit and talk about different sports scores, etc.
And finally, they can't be abusive. I wouldn't ever want to date someone who was abusive in any way, even if it was just to their truck. LOL
@Sinned (31)
• United States
3 Oct 09
I agree! Abuse is a terrible problem nowadays. Especially with the Chris Brown incident. I think with that situation, the wrong message was sent out to society by (Rhianna was it? I don't know much about pop-culture). Glad to see there are still level-headed women out there who don't want a "comfortable" relationship (one being where they're not truly happy, but comfortable that they have someone), but rather want a happy one.
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
I like men who have good set of eyes. Men who smells good. Men who looks clean. Men who reads. Men who knows when to talk. :B
If someone interests me, say his in front, I check on his shoes (or footwear) first then his nails. I easily get turned off when they’re not so prepared about tidying their shoes or cleaning/cutting their nails.
