if s/he had not been beautiful, you would have loved him/her?

but most of the practical cases i have seen that person goes for physical apperances. even it is true that for a true love it really doesnt matter. but in real life it matters as i have experienced in many cases.

I agree taztheone. It is unfortunate. I know many people talk about inner beauty. And to a great extent they are right as well. But when it comes to attraction, not many would be happy with an unattractive person. Even a baby turns towards the person with pleasant face. The other day I read about a Chinese guy, who had all stones coming out of his body (Indiainfo.com). I would like an honest answer how many of u all would feel ok to sit besides him in a bus, forget about attraction. I know we all would feel sorry for him, no doubt about it. But, other than that, physical appearances do make a lot of difference. Of course people who do not have such rare diseases can always make up in someway by using better clothes, better hair styles, better way of talking etc. That can take attention away from the drawback. But in such cases, no amount of other atributes can really take away the attention, can they? Sorry for being so brutally honest. And I am glad some doctor felt inclined to perform a little surgery on the poor soul. Hope there will be more who will do it, and hope he will also become acceptable amongst the rest.

Very well said vandana. However if the person is not ugly, apart from beauty, there are other factors which can attract people. This includes style, behavior, performance & so on. This will get people attracted towards that person, but still beauty is the easiest point of attraction because even a stranger will get attracted seeing the beauty. The character &inner beauty comes afterward so that the relation can go strong in the future.

what i think when we are in relation we only consider the internal beauty. but when we dont know the person we are only curious about the external beauty that is the practical bitter truth. no body goes directly to the person who is not good looking even how beautiful he or she is internally. but they prefer to go the externally goodlooking. wish everyone can care initially for internal one.