crying for nothing???
By jenely103085
@jenely103085 (79)
Philippines
October 4, 2009 2:02am CST
have you tried crying not knowing by yourself what your tears for ??? me... i experienced most often.. maybe this is because.. i have so many thoughts in my mind... and sometimes... i was thinking life is so unfair.. i am not asking for a perfect life but trying to make life better but there are times... things will not really meet as you expected.. ... ..
what about you??? have you experienced this too???
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17 responses
@desteny114 (886)
• United States
5 Oct 09
Yes and tom many times that I wish that never happened. So far I hardly ever have one of those day well not like I had them before because before it was one or two times a week. I knew I was in depression but I never got professional help but I did have a really nice friend that helped me get out from my depression. I am not sure if it might be normal to cry with no reason but for me it was actually that I had many things that seemed really bad to me and they confused me. I think that it might be better to get help either professional or a really friend to be there since it those get worst when you are alone or think that you are alone.
@sharlionse (739)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
Yes i tried this already. Sometimes when you feel that you are so loaded with lots of tensions and when you are so stressed up you feel like releasing them so you cry though there is no exact reason why you are crying...
@popciclecold (39543)
• United States
4 Oct 09
Hey jenely, I just had to respond to this post. I have been there, and I think all of us have at one time or another. Life hands out a multitude of disappoints. Not only to you but all of us. I don't know how old you are, but I'm 60, and still dealing with life's disappointments, and unexpectations. Try to concentrate, on the things that more are more important at this very time, too many thoughts will bring tears, because nothing is ever really gets settled. The things you can handle right now is where you should put you mind all of it. popciclecold
@Realsmack (155)
• United States
1 Nov 09
I'm in agreement with you popciclecold. One the other hand I find crying cleansing of my soul.I cry some times for absolutely no reason at all but it's because crying makes me feel better. I tell everybody that they should try crying at least once a week, it will make a world of difference in how you feel and how respond to life as a whole.
@frolicgirl49 (241)
• Indonesia
4 Oct 09
I did it several times.. I cry when I have so many thoughts and problems in my mind, and I can't do anything to solve the problems.. Sometimes I cry when I think about my life..
@jenely103085 (79)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
yeah we are the same... maybe mine.. i have a lots of reason to cry and do not know where tears specifically for....
@mybeatrice (203)
• China
4 Oct 09
hello jenely, yeah, they say females's unhappy feeling are all imagine. I think partly it is right. Sometimes when I have nothing to do I would begin imagin what will happy in my life, and that life is totally differnet from my current situation. And I would think all kinds of misery happened to me, then I would drop tears. but after I recovery from my imagination, I would regret all this, waiste another some time to pity myself, i am in reality is much better than what am I in my imagination!
@jenely103085 (79)
• Philippines
4 Oct 09
yeah thank you for agreeing my discussion ...yes... that is true... but for those people who did not experienced this.. they are so lucky ....... but maybe .. dropping tears especially when you are alone.....is just the way of reminishing those hurtful experienced in life....
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
4 Oct 09
I cry sometimes when I feel sad and remember something that is a very sad events, watch some dramas movies, watch some tv series or any program which invoke crying. Basically, I cry with a purposes. Then, crying without purposes I rarely done it as I do not like to think most of the times about sadness it makes you only feel depress. It is best to think more of the brighter periods than succumb in sadness.
@epicure35 (2814)
• United States
5 Oct 09
I have cried tears that I know do not come from my emotions or revolve around any circumstance directly involving me. Such weeping comes from our spirit and we do not know why or the circumstance, or even for whom we weep. This kind of crying can be a form of "intercession" for another, even someone we don't know, even a country, or a circumstance we know nothing about.
When our hearts are tender and we really have pure intentions, our spirits are truly grieved and the weeping is very deep and real. It has a meaning and purpose we do not readily understand. Know, though, that tears are healing, both for those experiencing the actual tears and those for whom they are cried.
@artistry (4151)
• United States
4 Oct 09
..Hi jenely103085, If you are crying all the tie then you may need help understanding what is going on, if it has sometime to do with your chemistry. Whether or not you are depressed must be answered as well. But if non of these are a problem, we as females have hormones that kick in at anytime and the tears start to flow. A good cry a month is no big deal, as far as I am concerned. In fact it is good for cleansing, after the good boohoo cry, you get on with your life. So you have to assess the situation, if you are crying excessively, then seek help, as you may be in a depressed state and something can be done about it. Otherwise, I would not be too concerned. Take care, learn to be your very own best friend. Love yourself.
@offlimits (596)
• Philippines
4 Oct 09
I would say that I kind of experience this often. I tend to cry even when I only think of something sad, or when something just came up my mind about certain things in life. Well, I think it is just okay because we could not really avoid these kind of situations. I always try to stay positive in life so that I wouldn't think of any failures but instead focus on living life in a more meaningful manner as possible. I think you should do the same too my friend. Take care! :)
@thebest1988 (603)
• China
4 Oct 09
hi,my friend, once I experienced it ,my method is to run in the woods.when you feel unhappy,it is a good way to release yourself,it can change your bad emotion,or you can cry in the open space, you can choose to listen music,I think it is useful.
@chinali (48)
• China
4 Oct 09
I often have this kind of experience.But in fact,there is really reason for it ,such as loneliness,bad emotion and so on .Maybe we don't even say out or find the reason,crying is just a good way to relieve ourselves,which will make us unstessed.
When i feel sad or in bad emotion,i often cry or have a good rest,just go out for the fresh air which can bring me peace.
@shrutisharma87 (2)
• India
4 Oct 09
yes, i have experienced that too..we sometimes cry remembring some embarrasing moments which we have experienced in past or if when we think that someone has broken our heart and thinking why our friends have betrayed us, when we were so loyal to them...i cry a lot usually when i sleep thinking of my past...
@madhuvamsi (1185)
• India
4 Oct 09
I have cried without my knowledge very less in my life still to this date. I did not remember when I last cried but one incident which I remembered and it was like this.. One day when I was in the school and my age was 10 years old, I was playing with friends and we were jumping from one desk to another. I suddenly slipped and fell on another desk sharp edge. One of the legs got hurt and just below the nee, the skin was split and lot of blood started flowing. Then one of my teacher tied very tight with my handkerchief, soon I was rushed to nearest Hospital. Doctors put the stitches on the wound and then gave injection. During all these problems, I did not cry at all.
But when I reached home and met my father and when he console me then suddenly without my knowledge started crying. My father said that you are grown up boy and be brave. This incident was always in my mind and when makes me forget it..
I do get emotional when I see emotional movies and I control my tears but from inside I would be crying. Crying in the way you does is good habit, this will help you feel alright from inside.. So, do not control your tears and cry whenever you feel to.. All the best..
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
4 Oct 09
Sometimes I think we just get overwhelmed by life. We have so many choices and decisions to make each day. We can feel ourselves spinning out of control. Crying a few harmless tears for no reason at all can be a good release for this tension. This is just my view on this.