If something good or bad happens then who is responsibel for that

India
October 4, 2009 2:32am CST
If something good or bad happens then according to you who is responsible for that?Who will you blame?God,yourself,your friends,your family or any other person?
3 responses
• United States
4 Oct 09
Hi,pulkitgenius, It is my opinion that everything that happens to you in life, is brought on by yourself. To blame someone else is foolish and to blame God is absurd. God gave us this freedom called "free will." So what we do , where we go , what we think, what we say, etc is of our own free will. We can't blame others for anything. We have to take responsibility for our own actions.
@abetojr (32)
• Philippines
4 Oct 09
Hi pulkitgenius, responding, you know, most people will look back and realize they did not have a great life because it's just so easy to settle for a good life, or perhaps as we often heard from others, they are blaming their circumstances for what they are. But those who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can't find them, make them. There was that story about an old carpenter who decided to retire from his work at the house building business. His employer-contractor was sorry to know his good worker had to retire. He asked the old carpenter if he could build just one more house before he retires, as a personal favor. He oblige but his heart was not in his work and he builds the house with poor workmanship and second-hand materials. When the old carpenter finished the house, the employer-contractor came and handed to him the front-door key of the house and told him this is your house, my gift to you. The old carpenter was shocked. If he had only know he was building his own house, he would have done it all differently. Now he had to live in the house he had built none too well. If you venture into the journey of life, think about that you are building your own life. So it is in you to decide whether you will put up less than your best, or give your best shot. We have this life, and it's the only one we've got. We may as well put the best of it and give ourselves something to remember and be truly proud of when we look back in our old age and reflect on our life.
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
4 Oct 09
I think Its our Luck and destiny more over we ourselves are responsible in many cases.Many good as well as bad things happen becos we are attached to it and did something to continue the same. While our destiny has a small hand in it and our luck too. They are usually the substitutes while we ourself is the3 boss and every thing is dependent on us.